When do men make the decision to become a dad?

Question

Just looking for some advice really.

Recently split with my X of over 3 years to me wanting a family and him not wanting to start a family. We're both 23 and i feel the time is so right for me and so perfect! He on the other hand disagree's and is adament that he doesnt want children for maybe 5 years!

We've since split due to this family situation and i was just wondering.. whats the possibilties that he might change his mind within the next year? etc

Answer 1

The probability of him changing his mind is good. I'd say 70 percent but not because he wants a family, and he may still protest it. But I can tell you why he left. Twenty-Three is still very young and just because you're ready, doesn't mean he is. It's like how a man should respect the fact a woman doesn't want to have s*x. Just because he's ready doesn't mean she is. Twenty-three is young, give it a few more years, I'd say 5-7, or whenever he's ready. If you want him back, you'll have to hold the family thing off.

Answer 2

no possibilty i think most kids are accidental