When do you know when your ready for a first kiss

Question

I'm in my last year of Jr, high (8th grade) and have been with this guy for 5 months. he wants to kiss me and i want to kiss him but I'm not an experienced kisser like him and i don't want to make a fool of myself when i do kiss him. I want a short light kiss but he wants a more intimate kiss and i told him that i wasnt ready for that but he keeps asking me when will i be ready... what do i do

Answer 1

He sounds kind of pushy and that's kind of a sign of disrespect for your feelings.  But I could be way off.

If you want to kiss him, but know he's gonna go a little too far on the kiss, then you should do the first kiss which'll put it more on your terms.  Granted, you've never done it before, at least you'll know when to stop and when to keep going.  

If he does it, it'll be more in his control than yours and it sounds like he's going for the hard kiss.

Ideally, the kiss should come to both of you naturally.  If you end up letting him kiss you, you still have control over how much you give.  If there is too much tongue, you can alway push away, or you could just keep your mouth less open.  

I think finally, which should be first on your list, you could just talk to him about your concerns, and your wants.  If he's a gentleman, he could bear to give your first kiss, or first few kisses, a good sweet shot, before moving on to the more passionate stuff.