When do you think its time to move on?

Question

ive liked this girl since 7th grade. she told her mom and my mom that she likes me too. she's the only girl i ever felt nervous around. we both have never had a relationship before and we are 20. well i have made out with girls but not girlfriends. i just saw her at a party and i got nervous again. i cant stop thinking about her. i dont know what to do. maybe its time to let her go.

Answer 1

well if you have liked her for that long maybe instead of being nervous around her you could talk to her and see where it goes. maybe it could be a great relationship for you guys

Answer 2

Uh dude, just be a man and freakin talk to her and get with her, if she already told your mom and her mome that she likes you then WHAT ARE YOU AFRAID OF?  ARE YOU NUTS!!!?  THIS IS THE PERFECT TIME!!!

WHAT THE h**l?  WHY DO YOU WANT TO GIVE UP SO EASILY BUDDY!!?  IF NOTHING WENT BAD THEN DUDE, WHAT IS THE USE OF MOVING ON WHEN NOTHING HAPPENED!!!?  OE OE OE OE OE OE O EO EO EO EOE OEO E ow..........

you can move on if she rejects you okay buddy?

NOW GO OUT THERE AND BE SOMEBODY!!

Answer 3

why let her go moron,go after her,she's probably the only one that can truly love you r****d

Answer 4

how come you never got around to asking her out?

if you had the guts to make out with other girls, how come you didn't have the guts to ask her out?

Answer 5

You may be passing up on a good thing. Don't make the mistake of not making a move then in the future you will always wonder "what if"...go for it! What's the worse that can happen? At least she will know u have interest in her.

Answer 6

you like her, she likes you. sounds like it's time to ask her out, not move on!  

Answer 7

What exactly is it that is keeping you two apart? Go get your girl if you like her. You may regret it if you dont.

Answer 8

Your first love is always one of the strongest, but it doesn't mean she's the one.

Answer 9

Let her go? You havent had a hold of her yet!

My thought is, dont have regrets about this. There seems to be something special about her. Find out what it is. Ask her for coffee, a lunch date. Make a move, boy!  

Answer 10

Or...maybe it's time to call her up? I don't see the problem here honestly. You like her, she likes you, ask her out! What could be the harm? She says no,  you move on. Get the process here? It's called dating so get with it!

Peace to you!

:)

Kristen

Answer 11

ask her out on a date

Answer 12

if u really like her u need to just suck it up and talk to her unless shes like married or somthin........good luck!!

Answer 13

Talk to her! You'll never get anywhere with her if you don't talk!

Don't be shy, you can always be friends if it doesn't go as planned, but you basically know she likes you as well.

I'd just flirt a bit and see how she responds, if it's positive, then carry on and see where you end up, if not, then you should probably move on.

Good luck!

Answer 14

You should consider talking to her, and letting her know how you feel rather than relying on it to go through your mothers.  You've got to take the initiative and just talk to her.

If you are feeling nervous about her, you've got to be able to shed the nervous shell and show her that she doesn't make you nervous. It also seems that both of you are rather nervous about this. Basically just talk to the girl, see if she is still interested in you, and if she is not then perhaps it is time, until then don't let someone you desire walk away.

Answer 15

now

Answer 16

why don't you ask her out??  you've been waiting since 7th grade, pretty soon if you don't do something she will move on and you'll be a guy with a crush on some girl.  you'll be beating yourself up because you didn't do anything.  take a chance and see what happens.

Answer 17

If she likes you, go for it.

Answer 18

Speaking from experience, if you're too nervous around her to even speak to her...let it go, because there's a strong likelihood that she doesn't feel the same and if she doesn't you'll be crushed.

Great Advice, go for the ones that go for you.

Answer 19

No, go talk to her. See how she's doing.  

Answer 20

Or here's a wild thought, why don't you just ask her out?