When does the s*x stop for married women?

Question

My wife and I are in our 30's and I have to admit she doesn't need s*x as much as me. Now before some of yall answer know this much...

1. I am not going lie and say my stuff is the biggest, but this whiteboy does alright compared to all races of dudes in the locker room. ( Yes...I looked and don't lie, yall was looking too.)

2. She goes first and then me. I know her G spot, plus my daddy taught me manners.

3. We have talked about it and shes says she is more than satisfied.

So I would just like to know if there is an age in which woman do not feel like having s*x anymore?

Answer 1

I don't think so.  I think a lot depends on the woman and her lifestyle, kids, full time job, doing most things around the house on her own will all make her feel tired and just want to go to bed rather than have s*x.  Hormones can have a lot to do with it too.  From the sounds of things it is probably not you but the things listed above.

Answer 2

I wouldn't know.

Answer 3

I'm 29. My age for stopping was 28.

I don't think that we stop wanting it, we just get tired of the same thing. I'm so bored with my s*x life I could kill someone. But its as much my fault as it is my husbands. Size doesn't matter anyway...my husband is not very big but until I got bored everything was fine. Size doesn't cause the boredom anyway. Routines cause it.

But you say you are packing huh?

:)

Answer 4

It's not necessarily a drop in libido, but women fall victim to relationship boredom just like men do. Are you doing it the same way, every Tuesday at 9:00 pm? Perhaps it's time to have some fun and do some experimenting.

Do you have kids? Is she tired all the time? If a woman is chronically overworked and tired, sometimes s*x starts to feel like one more chore on the to-do list. Engage in "chore play," which is taking on some of her household chores without being asked, and send her to take a shower or a bath with a glass of wine, and meet you in the bedroom in 20 minutes.

Answer 5

Is she on any hormonal contraception? Low libido is a major side effect. I was put on it at 13 to help irregular periods and 10 years on came off it and lets just say there isn't a hope in h**l that will make me sacrifice my drive again for that!

Answer 6

It depends upon the woman and her life.  I'm 40, and for 10+ years I've had a stronger s*x drive than my husband.  I'm slowing down recently, but it's mostly due to working long hours.  We both do better when we're on vacation and not stressed.  But it basically comes down to how tired you both are and other factors in life.

Maybe you just need to take a romantic vacation.

Answer 7

It needn't stop.

I'm in my mid 30's and was extremely bored and dissatisfied with my married s*x life(to be utterly honest) but now it's pretty good.

Bringing back the passion and bringing to life fantasies can work wonders.  Spice things up a little.

Showing a bit of romance will work too.  Often romance flies out the window in marraige after a while.

Answer 8

There isn't an age there are only ever reasons.  In fact a womens sexual peak is later in life then mens so maybe she has not reached it yet. It could also be contributed to a medication she may be taking.  You mentioned your size and knowing her spot and that she claims to be satisfied.  Have you tried romance?  Or maybe she is tired at the end of the day and s*x is beginning to feel like a chore; trying helping around the house.

Answer 9

because its boring, nothing ruins s*x faster than marriage. The longer you are with someone the faster the chemical reaction between the two of you fades.

Its not personal unless you really aren't up to the task.

Wives cheat like crazy because they want the rush of a new partner or they need the risk to feel alive.

Answer 10

There is no age. Women get more sexual when they get older. A woman's sexual decline has much to do with self esteem, lack of hormones, and lack of nurturing her body and mind. Women like it when all day everyday she hears how s**y she is and how her body turns you on. Rubbing her through out the day ( without having s*x ) in sensual areas will also get her going. Heck, she might after awhile come after you!

Answer 11

age has nothing to do with it but what is important, is that you keep the romance alive otherwise, it's just f__king.  I don't mean to imply that it's all up to you either because she should be seducing you as well.  start it off by making a date with her; wine and dine her; then continue the seduction.  marriage can turn a relationship into redundancy so you need to keep the spark going - surprise each other periodically with romantic plans - assure yourselves that you still like each other (and please don't underestimate the importance of liking each other).  Making each other feel special is of extreme importance.

Besides everything else known to mankind, the ultimate test of longevity, is how she makes you feel, and vice versa.

Answer 12

NO, s*x can go on as long as YOU are physically capable.

Female s*x drive can vary because of many things.  One is the birth control pill.  It makes women's bodies act as if they were already 3 months pregnant (weight gain, etc.) and diminishes s*x drive.  Sometimes depression can cause a loss of s*x drive.

Viagra works for women with low s*x drives, but insurance refuses to acknowledge this.  See if your wife is willing to go to the gynecologist and ask her about the problem.  I know that without a s*x drive, she doesn't "feel" the problem, but surely she also remembers how s*x feels, misses s*x and wishes she had a stronger s*x drive.

Answer 13

What's the difference between a job and a wife?

A) The job still sucks after six months

Answer 14

The minute her lover leaves......

She's still stuck with her husband.