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When having s*x how to act?

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me and my boyfriend of 16 months have planned to have s*x tonight when i go to his appartment. were both 20 and go to the same college. the thing is hes not a virgin and i am. and i dont watch p**n so i really dont know how to act what to do or say when its happening or like how it feels like and what will he be doing? please help

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Just relax,

there is no special way you are supposed to act.

Just enjoy the time with your bf.

Everything will come naturally the more often it happens.
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If you have been together that long then he already knows that you are a virgin, right? Just take in nice and easy and he will guide you. Let him know that you are nervous so it's out there. Sounds like you are in a meaningful, loving relationship, nothing to worry about. You'll get better at it.
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Prepare to create a memory that will be a milestone your entire life. You will live with this for the rest of your life. Consider what this will mean to someone that you will choose, hopefully, to be your life's partner. This is one of the most important things that will ever happen to you. How cheap are you ?
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Don't worry so much. It will come naturally if you're in love with him. Just put on some music, light some candles, and let him show you the way. Just be yourself and don't put on an act.
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Sweetheart... just go with it, trust me. The cavemen didn't have p**n either and they figured it out. Just let your body do the talking.
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Be yourself. Act how YOU feel. You don't need someone telling you what to do. He will lead you through it. 16 months is a long time, and he knows what to do. It's going to hurt bc you're a virgin, so tell him that. Don't worry. You'll have a good time:). Good luck
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just go with the flow:)

you dont have to act like a pornstar for

a guy to like it. all they want to know is that you are

enjoying it.

while having s*x tell him

when you like it and give him feedback.

he'll love it!

phrases like "that feels so good"

work and just do it all with your own little twist:)
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he's not a virgin so he probably knows what he likes. let him be in control. You maybe nervous in the beginning but once you get into it you should be fine. A big part of it is not thinking so much during s*x. Don't worry about if he's enjoying it or if this is right or whatever. He's a man, he's going to enjoy himself. he knows your a virgin so he's going to try real hard to make sure it's good to you so just relax and enjoy it.
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just wear something a little revealing & act super s**y!

other than that everything will happen naturally, don't worry just go with the flow!
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It just comes on natural. Don't freak out too much, just be yourself. If he knows it's your first time, he'll probably be gentle and not expect too much out of you, and he'll most likely be aware that it'll hurt you.

s*x is supposed to be a beautiful thing, it shouldn't be like p**n. If you're really in love with this guy, everything should fall into place, and it should be fun. Good luck!
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STOP!!!! You waited this long, why not wait until your sure this is your soul mate. You are still a virgin and that is something to be proud of and to be treasured. I would wait.
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When you get there you're going to be nervous....Obviously!! (I'm pretty sure you're already nervous) First of all if you don't feel comfortable as the night goes on let him know. There's nothing wrong with you changing your mind. If he respects you he will respect your decision.

If you do have s*x with him one thing you need to do is relax and don't worry too much about what to do. Since he's not a virgin I'm sure he will help you and guide you as to what to do. When you're having s*x and even before just be yourself and be natural. Make sure he wears protection unless you're planning on having children!! That's the best advice I can give to you.

I hope everything works out!!
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If you like it.. act like it. Show your pleasure.. If you don't like it.. don't fake it.. that just hurts. Change position and speed and things of that sort until it feels good. As for what to say.. His name will probably turn him on. Tell him it feels good. Ask him if he likes it. And if you wanna get a little more erotic say what's going on. "Your **** feels so good" "MY ***** is so wet"
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dont act, becuz then he'll know your faking. Those sounds and actions will come naturally dont worry

be open and make sure you really love him before you do this.

and dont be shyyyy
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just be like oooo baby that feels soooo good oooo yeaaaaaa
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all these people that are saying act like it feels good or whatever, dont. then he will know it is an act. the first time never feels good. it will hurt. like h**l. just being honest....
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Well... umm...

Try to be s**y. Put on a little music.

Believe me the words AND sounds will just start to pore out.
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moan when it feels good. and maybe moan his name, (not 100% sure if he'll like it so good luck.)

Thats all I got to say.
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It is going to hurt. I am more concerned with how he will act than how you will. If he is kind he will be more concerned with your comfort than his pleasure. Maybe a good massage would help you with anxiety. Maybe a cocktail before would help.

I wish you had a woman to give you real advice instead of this site. I also wish you would wait as virginity can never be taken back once given. Are you quite sure this man is worth the gift you are offering him?

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you dont have to act --- enjoy the sensations do what feels good ---- you do NOT need to look at what other people do --- you are unique and experience pleasure in your own way ---- take it slow and enjoy the journey and hope that your partner is considerate enough to want your pleasure --- best wishes

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well im a virgin all i can say is act natural like dont be afraid to express how you feel if you feel like screaming scream.thats all i can say. help me please! http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;...
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If you try too hard then you are going to act uncomfortable and that will make him uncomfortable, and there is nothing s**y about uncomfortable s*x. Go with the flow, if you like what is happening then let him know. RELAX, and let things happen the way the should. It will come naturally to you.
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Act like u just commited a crime. I did my first time. :P
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there's no way to "act", do what you want. It's like when your drunk for the first time, movies and stuff show us how one might act but really it's all up to you and how you feel would be the best. Moan if you want, scream if you want. Whatever comes naturally, and believe me sweetie, if it's good, you will :)
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act horny
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Does he know you're a virgin?

If he does, I'm sure he'll understand that you're not exactly sure how to act.

And sexual behavior comes 'natural'.

So don't worry. :]
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My sisters name is nikki d. If your not sure how to act try watching some p**n.
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let the juices flow...just go with it, say what feels good and tell him to keep doing it personally its nice when a girl will say what feels good or even better what doesnt...theres no way how to act its s*x
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if this is something you are ready for, just relax and let it happen naturally, there is no specific way you should act, since you are a virgin and he's not hopefully he will go slow and be gentle and helpful with you, just relax and dont do anything that you dont want to do
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You're 20 and you don't know all of this by now? :/ Did you never have s*x ed at school? Never read a book? You won't get any serious answers out of this lot so I suggest doing a search on Google; type in 'guide to s*x'. Really, you shouldn't even be thinking about having s*x if you're not fully aware of what it entails beforehand.
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try to go with the flow

http://www.themarriagebed.com/pages/sexu...

the thing i do is:

i start touching them around there ears and start touching them around there legs and close to the middle of there legs.

thn i sit on them facing them and start kissing them wildly.

then i pull them by there shirt and move them towards the bed.

then you make them lay on the bed and atart taking off there shirt. kiss them for a while and then take off my shirt. then from there if you want take off your and his pants. and then from there kiss. do the side by side poistion. and go with the flow.

the first time will always be the best tiem.

hope this helped
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