When i'm with 2-3 girls......?

Question

i'm a guy, and when i hang out (not date) with 2-3 girls and i'm the only guy, what should i say to be in their conversation? or what should i do? i tried so hard to relate myself to their conversation, but it is so hard cuz it could make me sassy. (the last thing i want)

we hang out once, and i found myself interested in one of the girl (but she has a bf), so i tried to impress her and being a gentleman to her. (and her friends too) they are all new friends to me, so i can't joke around like i'm with my old friends.

what should i do???? plz help

Answer 1

It's not difficult to relate to girls.  I am not at all uncomfortable in that situation.  What annoys me is when girls start to get silly or act immature.  If I am around mature women, I can feel at ease and just go with the flow of the conversation (whatever they are talking about).  Just relate to them and where they are at.  Women talk about different stuff than men.  You can reach into their heads a little and you will see you can talk to them, relate to their topics, joke, be yourself but still not treat them like guys.  I disagree that you should talk to women like guys.  That's a little different than when your with one woman (usually a date or a gf).  Both parties act different in that situation as they are trying to relate to one another.  But when you got a few women together, they are going to be relating more along the lines of the other girls.  So you have to come to that level of mentality.  Like I said it depends on the women.  Some girls I like to be around, others I would run to get away from them.  Often when a girl is around her friends, you see just how mature or NOT she is.  If I like the girl, I will like her in any situation.  If not, than it's probably someone I don't want to hang with anyway!

Answer 2

jus tlk u rly culd say anythin n heres a clu girls lik it wen boys mes up tht kan giv u sumtin 2 tlk about

Answer 3

Just be yourself.  Find something common that all you have an interest in and start a convo.  Being the only guy you probably need to initiate a topic that isn't gender specific.  Bring up a movie, music, TV......but just be real and they will appreciate that about you.

Answer 4

make really intresting jookes.:)

Answer 5

Hang out with guys instead of girls. Don't be upset that you cant relate to their conversations, because if you could, youd probably be g*y or at least looked at as the fun g*y guy friend and none of them will want you!  

Answer 6

Just be yourself and do something outrageous. Like when playing Truth or Dare.. Suggest something outrageous as a dare. It should be about having fun so your feelings don't get involved so you don't find it uncomfortable. Or you could bring in some of your guy mates into the group.

Answer 7

try to start the conversation get to know there intrests so you can hold the same conversation in knowing what they are talking about

Answer 8

why not do something fun with 'em like go to an amusement park, go bowling, see a movie or something?

then you'll find things to talk about while you're doing those things.

just be yourself. :]

Answer 9

Yes you can joke around with them,those shows that you not afraid to interact.You know they got to get to know you too.I remember in tenth grade sophomore.I didn;t know any body and 3 guy out know where snatch my books and start running with it.I'm chasing them,all day long they kept my book.We became good friends and still are.You got to put your self out there.What could it hurt

Answer 10

Talk about the same things you would talk about to guys. Most girls know about sports. You can also talk about school. future plans, cars, and maybe even politics.

Answer 11

you can joke around.. they will probably like that. Be yourself, don't act any differently around them,

Answer 12

Just keep on hanging out with them until you feel comfy with them. You want them as friends right? You can joke around if friendship is all you want. Is hard to be the only guy in the conversation, try to talk about singers I guess..It'll help a lot if you could tell us what is the age of the girls :)