When is it fair game to kick a boy in the balls?

Question

There is a possibility that my son is going to get kicked in the balls by a girl tomorow. Yesterday he grabbed the b*****s of an older girl at the bus stop and then ran away. He's only 12 for goodness sake! I think he must have done it to impress his friends, because I certainly did not bring him up that way.

At any rate, he seems to be in trouble now. This girl told a friend who then told my daughter who told us (with some amusement) that when she sees him she's going to "kick him in the balls." I'm not sure if she's serious or not, but the news certainly has my son scared. I offered to call the the girl's mother but to my surprise he seems to prefer a blow to the testicles to the social consequences of letting his mother get involved. I have thought about purchasing an athletic cup for him but it occurs to me that this might be a valuable learning experience for him and maybe the kick is warranted.

So I have two questions really. Is he really old enough to be getting a kick in the balls for the first time? And if she she actually does it, is it a fair response?

Answer 1

Never kick a man in the balls.

LOL!!! you're the best mom ever just for thinking of buying a baseball cup for him to wear.  It's just 12 yr old gossip, I doubt she'll kick him.

Answer 2

It is good that he is scared! LOL Fear is a great motivation to not do bad things. He does need to know that his behavior isn't acceptable and sometimes there are consequences to his behavior. Encourage him to apologize to the girl as he is approaching her. Maybe he can diffuse the situation before he gets the dreaded kick.

I hope all goes well with your son.

Answer 3

WELL THATS FAIR HE SHOULD GET CHARGED for doing what he did

Answer 4

buy the cup.

your 12 year old son is a bit cheeky but he is just a young boy.

and under no circumstances is it ok to kick a boy in the balls, especially for this.

i wonder how old this girl is because this seems like an immature response to your sons curiosity.

Answer 5

I think there is something more serious to worry about here than the kick in the balls.  I mean, your son grabbed a young ladies breast!  You need to sit down and have a real serious talk to him.  If the girl's parents choose, they could file a report with the police.  I'm surprised they haven't contacted you yet.  If it happened to my daughter, you better believe I'd be on that phone to have a talk with you about how inappropriately your son behaved.  Although there probably isn't a lot they could do, I'm sure the police coming over to talk to your son would be one of the biggest scares of his life at only 12 years old.  Grabbing a young ladies breast is a serious offense.  As his mother, you should be doing more to him than this girl has threatened.  He needs a lecture and a grounding... AT LEAST!  He also needs to be taken over to the young girls house and apologize to her in person.  If he gets kicked in the ball, then so be it.  He deserves it.

Answer 6

would it make you angry enough to "kick someone in the balls" if they grabbed your breast?

Answer 7

Wow, he deserves it.

I would have kicked him in the balls myself if my son did that!

Answer 8

ok, im 13 and if a guy, any guy, grabed my breast id kungfoo there *** then   and there. im not joking but he got lucky. if he was my son i would let him fight that battle himself.

if his old enough to do that then hes old enough to get kiked in the balls!

i woulda kiked his ***.

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Answer 9

ahrrr the ol' peg to the third leg treatment aye? I wish him luck, better put the icepack within his reach

Answer 10

I think the learning experience will be good for him. He'll live no doubt and he'll have to contend with the consequences of his actions on his own.  

Answer 11

That sucks for your son, but I would let it be. Grabbing a woman's breast is so NOT acceptable, and while a kick to the balls may be harsh...it will certainly teach him a lesson. Sometimes you have to learn the hard way, you know?

In any case, there is a good possibility that this girl won't end up doing it anyways. But if she does, show your son some empathy (different from sympathy btw), tell him you hope he never grabs a girl like that again (because as an adult, that can lead to much worse than a kick in the balls...like a lawsuit for example, or termination from work if it happened on the job, etc), and move on.

Good luck to your son lol

Answer 12

No offense, but your son grabbed a girl-s b*****s. Im sure you would hate it too if a kid grabbed your b*****s (or even an adult  for that matter). Yeah, maybe a kick is extreme, maybe more of jsut telling him off or slapping him (not hard), but i think if she does it, she does have a right to be  offended.

And 12 year old do indeed know what they are doing when they do this stuff, trust me. Some of them but that time have already had s*x (not to scare you).

Answer 13

He not only DESERVES a kick in the Testes but a punch in the mouth as well! He's fortunate it wasn't my daughter she would have caught him and DROPPED him right then and there and she's 12(that is IF my 14 year old son hadn't ALREADY snapped him in TWO for Disrespecting his sister)...your son is disrespectful and you need to teach him about sexual assault...otherwise the Police will...what he did would get him Expelled from my kids' school...it is considered Sexual Harrassment...make him "man" up he's Got a kick COMING!

Answer 14

There really is no real age to be old enough to get kicked in the balls I would say..but now a days kids are getting younger and younger to do anything they shouldnt be doing until their older.

And even though he grabbed her breast its still not fair game to kick in the balls. Its just not right for a boy to get kicked in the balls its uh not healthy.  

Answer 15

Maybe he should learn the hard way, as impressing mates or not, its NOT acceptable to be grabbing womans breast. A 12 year old know exactly what he is doing

Answer 16

I think he should apologize to the girl and if he gets kicked in the balls fair enough he should have more respect for women.

Answer 17

Tell him to put 5 pairs of boxers on and put a towel in there too. It'll hurt a a lot but he will still be able to make babies.

Answer 18

ummmm yeah he deserves it and you yourself should kick him in the balls.