There are lots of questions listed on this forum that are addressed to adoptees, adoptive parents, first parents, etc. I've seen times where adoptive parents have posted on a question asked to adoptees and I've seen questions addressed to one specific type of adoptive parent (international or foster) where someone not of that "target audience" answers (and it's generally insulting).
Questions geared toward adoptees that are answered by adoptive parents generally get called out, for the adoptive parents cannot say what their children are feeling inside.
Fair enough. But then should adoptees refrain from commenting on what an adoptive parent is "feeling inside" as well?
I think that seems fair. What do you think? When is it okay to answer a targeted question when you are not part of the group addressed? And if it is acceptible for one group to answer about the feelings and motivations of another, does that work both ways?
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