When is to late for a husband/wife to come home?

Question

Just wondering what time that everyone thought was to late for a husband/wife to come home. I don't mind when my husband stays out late with friends sometimes, but it makes me angry when he doesn't call and let me know when he is going to be out late. I hate when its 1am and I haven't heard from him. How do you handle this kind of situation in your marriage?

Answer 1

Have you ever thought that maybe its something at home that is driving him to be with his friends at this late hour everyday?

Try loving him more at home so he doesn't have the need to be with his friends at late hours of the night.

Answer 2

it depends on your level of trust and how and if hes communicated

Answer 3

Find a way to let him know you are serious about how you feel.  Don't let him run you over.  

Next time he does that tell him his stuff will be outside make it dramatic and I bet you he'll quit his sh !t

Answer 4

Too late is 1 hour past the time he said he'd come home. I have very little tolerance for people who go out without their spouses.

Answer 5

I don't think there's a set time for someone to come home.  My wife worked at a bar and sometimes she would stay way past closing, like 3:00 a.m.  If you trust them to make right decisions and they let you know ahead of time that they're out late, they shouldn't have a curfew.

Curfews are for children.  My spouse is a grown woman who can make her own choices and still respect my wishes.  I don't have her come home at any time.  When she comes home, she comes home.

Maybe that's why we're happy in our relationship.  Freedom.