When its time to make a follow up...?

Question

my boyfriend's mother wrote a letter for my visa application so i can visit them for atleast 3months..its 2 months already yet my boyfriend's documents are not yet completed.. he's so d**n busy with thier family business but he said hes preparing it.. when is it okay to follo-up?

Answer 1

I'd be making a followup everyday!!  If you're really wanting to see him, you'll annoy the fire out of him until he gets it done!  I wouldn't have waited this long.  Maybe he just needs a reminder...and men hate being annoyed about something, so bug him until he gets it finished, or continue to wait!  

I hope you enjoy your visit, and I pray it's soon!  God's blessings on you and yours...Always!

Answer 2

NOW!!!  I think he's not really interested in your visiting or he'd have done it right away.  If he doesn't act on this immediately I recommend you face the hard truth that he's not really your boyfriend.  He might have someone else his mother's unaware of.  I am sorry for your pain, but don't live a fantasy.  It will only make things worse in the long run.