When logic and reason say one thing, but your heart and eyes say another...?

Question

...on what do you base your final decision?

Do you base your decision on past experience, or do you recognise the fact that a situation or a person can change?

Is there a pattern connected with gender in this issue?

Answer 1

I've ended up in a bad way when reacting to one OR the other, whether it be complete logic or complete physical reaction.

I've had to learn (and I am still learning) how to keep my mouth shut and hear what I'm going to say in my mind, before I say it aloud. Sometimes, I'll even sleep on it now to avoid the dilemma of 'wish I wouldn't' or 'I should have'.

I think women may have a greater pattern than men to say what's on their mind at the moment where as men may not feel as big a need to share their feelings right off the bat if there is a difference in opinion....but, that's coming from a woman's point of view.

Answer 2

Your eyes & heart are at times a false sense. Reason and logic when it comes to 'relationships' are a more stable rout to take.

I know a lot of ppl that give into their 'heart' and it's so ugh! because they know they put themselves in situations they know they don't deserve to be in. I ask, "For what?"

There are plenty of ppl on this planet. Find one that is compatable on more levels.

Leaving something that one has put time & effort into is hard but if it's they right thing to do (and you know if it is) then it can only be benificial.

Answer 3

I can always trust my heart. I am really tuned in though so it never steers me wrong. If someone isn't as tuned it they could be confused. You can never depend on a person to change. If you want respect you have to give it to yourself & if you are with someone disrespectful you are not respecting yourself.