When my fiance and i first started dating he was so sweet and romantic, now all the romance has gone, why?

Question

now as we go more into the months together, hes less romantic, always tired, complains that hes getting "old", makes me feel "invisible" when we go out ... i do love him and he says he loves me, he showed it before, how come no more?

Answer 1

Because when you first start dating, it's romantic and exciting to be in a new relationship.  After a while you get used to it and start taking each other for granted.  The divorce rate for couples who have been together under two years is almost twice as high as for other people because they are basing their decision to get married on the excitement of a new relationship rather than on seeing what the relationship is like after you've been together for a long while.

Answer 2

because thats what guys do.  The tend to be soo cool and romantic and sweet, and they pretend to be whipped and have a leash around them, but once they get sick of it, it all stops, and you are suppose to respect it....but of course you don't because its not right that they do that.  My ex did that.  It was terrible

Answer 3

How long exactly have you been together? If only a few months, and he's already your fiance', don't be surprised that you are getting to know the real man. My mister and I have been together for over two years, and engaged nearly one. He's still romantic, and considerate, so I would be wondering why he's changing so much in such a short span of time. Have a serious conversation with him, and do some major reflection based on the outcome. It could be that he's getting too relaxed, something a lot of guys do when they have already "got the girl." Don't expect to keep the magical glow from the beginning of the relationship. Even though that is a fleeting feeling, true love and commitment leaves you with something that much sweeter.

Answer 4

Months together??

You've only been together months and you're calling him your fiance? Maybe you need to get some premarital counseling

Answer 5

Sweetie -------- Nothing last forever ----------

Answer 6

months and your engaged? welcome to life...

Answer 7

I dont have all the details.  But if its romance your looking for why dont you spice it up?  Have you talked to him?  Relationships get comfortable and people forget about all the good things the beginning of the relationship.  Also- what does him having to be tired and getting old have to do with romance?  It sounds like you have some major problems in the relationship and I wonder if he is trying to tell you he is "tired" of you, especailly if he seems to be ignoring you.  Get the picture?