When on a date and your guy has to pay, do you stand with him while he pays or do you go sit down and wait ?

Question

When on a date and your guy has to pay, do you stand with him while he pays or do you go sit down and wait ?

Answer 1

stand with him

Answer 2

i don't understand what kind of places you are going where he would stand to pay...  mcdonalds?  bk?

btw, why does HE "HAVE TO" pay..  be sure to be offering to pay for yourself or at least the tip.. make sure he knows that you appreciate him being willing to pay but that you go out with him b/c you like him and not simply b/c he opens his wallet for you.

Answer 3

You can go with him, but it is polite not to look at his hands and wallet while he's paying.

The best would be to wait and not go along.

Answer 4

I will stand there. Going to sit down seems kind of rude and might make him feel unappreciated.

Answer 5

Uh...where did he take you for your date KFC?... LoL Most dates happen in a sit in resturant where the waiter brings the food to your table. If I were you I'd expect more from him and ask him to bring the food to the car when he's done ordering. You need an up grade.

Answer 6

A lot of it depends on the type of restaurant.  If it is a diner type or fast food you would stand with him.  If it is a more up

scale place remain seated and await his return or excuse yourself to the ladies' room.  In a more expensive place you would remain seated with him and the server would take the payment and return with your receipt.  In any case, the young man who said your date should return to the table to assist you with your chair, coat, door etc was most correct and I applaud his parents for his fine upbringing.

Answer 7

Stand by him unless the waiter makes the exchange for him while still at the table

Answer 8

Obviously, sit down and wait, unless my guy asks me to come along to stand with him while he pays.

Answer 9

If he is a well mannered gentleman he will come back to the table, help you with your chair, help put on your coat, throw down a great tip, smile at you, take your arm , open the door for you, close the door for you, writers cramp, and there is so much that your man should do.