When parents dont ve time then who can teach children GOOD MANNERS or GOOD CONDUCT?

Question

When parents dont ve time then who can teach children GOOD MANNERS or GOOD CONDUCT?

Answer 1

Considering they chose to become a parent they need to make the time. Or carry the shame of having a ASBO child!

Answer 2

by our grand parents & from elder peoples

Answer 3

teachers in school,grand parents;elder siblings.

Answer 4

That is just a very, very sad statement. No wonder our kids are going to pot! Parents should always put their children first.

Answer 5

no parent can shrug the responsibility of taking care of their children. then they are not worth being called as parents.

a gardener's responsibility does not stop just after sowing a seed or planting a sapling. to have a healthy plant he must further nurture and take care of the plant so that the yield or result will be good.

similarly parents should find time to take care of their children. once the children go to school the teachers are there to teach good manners which again has to be reinforced by the parents at home.

next to the parents, the grand parents are the ones who can take care of their grand children. since they have  more time in hand  they will be of great help.

whatever may be the reason the parents should take care of their young ones. otherwise a neglected child may  get in to bad habits which will cause mental and monetary problems in the later years and may result in social embarrassment for the parents. as much quality ime you spend with your child is worth any amount of wealth you are earning for your future.

Answer 6

If one does not have time for children, then one should not have children.

Answer 7

Good Question!

Parents are the child's first educators and manners begin at home. And when people decide to have children they should ensure they have time to spend with them. Children watch and learn and if they are in good company then no problem but if its the other way round, then God help them and their parents. In my opinion parents have to spend ample time with their kids when they are v young...better for everyone in the long run.

Answer 8

Parents teach their child good manners but in their absence other members of the family should take the job.Grandpa,grand ma,uncle,aunt can teach them .But today we live in small families so most the child dont have their relatives with them.So the parents should buy them good books and they can learn from them.They should be sent to good scool where they will have teachers to guide them.They will have friends there from whom they can learn.

Answer 9

their care taker or other family members. in my case it was my grandma

Answer 10

I don't mean to sound judgemental...but I think your children learn good manners and good conduct by observing their parents.  Chances are if the parents aren't well mannered and don't exhibit good conduct...there is a slim to none chance the child can be "taught".  BUT, there are a few books out for children on etiquette.  You can always read them the book and hope for the best.

Answer 11

As parents, they need to MAKE TIME to teach their children.  It's part of the responsibility of having kids in the first place.  It isn't up to someone else to teach them manner, good conducts, moral values.  It's parents jobs.  There is never an excuse to not spend time actually parenting.

Answer 12

Make time; it is the responsibility of the parent. Period.

Other people's actions reinforce what is taught in the home.

No matter what else you do in life, how you raise your kids is all that really matters.

Answer 13

Leave your children amongst minimum 3 years elder children.

they will do what you want.

Answer 14

CHILDREN WOULD LEARN FROM SCHOOL TEACHERS, CLASS MATES, TELIVISIONS, PRERECORDED CASSETES & VCDs

TIME IS CHANGING... SO DON'T WORRY... YOUR KIDS HAVE LOTS OF SOURCE TO LEARN GOOD AND BAD MANNERS.....

Answer 15

all parents have the time to teach manners. manners are taught during an everyday conversation. "how is the weather?"  child's correct response shoud be "Its rainy" (example) not I dunno , "What?" or, just ignoring the parent.  good housekeeping is taught, clean-up, respect others in the house. not the parent shooing the child away cause the parent 'needs space' when the child hasn't seen mom all day. if a parent shrugs off manners and respect in the home, then we can only hope the child will be up the good behaviors elsewhere. lazy parenting  :(

Answer 16

I agree with nottashy... there. As a parent, you have to make time. No job or income is more important than teaching your kids right and wrong, morals, values, manners etc. You can have other family members, such as grandma, or an aunt or uncle help you out a bit, but ultimately, its up to the parent. If you are referring to not having time because of a job or career, then someone has to give up something for the kids. There has to be a sacrifice somewhere. Your example for your children, will be in your sacrificing the time to teach  them. They will know you placed importance on these things.

Answer 17

parents will have to spare time for teaching civilised manners and good conduct... there is no substitute... after all what is their aim to earn name, fame and fortune...