When "he's just not that into you"?

Question

do you agree a guy will do what it takes to be with you if he truly wants you. i think where there are hesitations (lack of real action), it just means he's not in love. and of course, i am talking about a single and adult person, not a teenage boy. so, would you agree? thanx

Answer 1

i guess but i don't exactly get it

Answer 2

adults are shy & if he's normal, he wont act all lovey dovey when you hang out. He's not into you if you ask him to hang out & he avoids you. If he likes you, he'll stay around. Some men who've been hurt take a while to come around.  

Answer 3

Yes, I agree that if a guy is crazy about you he'll do whatever it takes to be with you. He'll call you all the time, stare at you at every opportunity he gets, and he won't be ashamed to let everyone know about it. If he really loves you, nothing will keep him away, my dear. Hope this helps!

Answer 4

Yes, if he's met you and is at all interested, he will call, ask for dates, and do whatever it takes to get to know you better. If he isn't calling, or is not asking, then yes, he's just not that into you. Find someone who cares about you as much as you do them. You're worth it!

Answer 5

In my experiences, if a guy really want to be with you he puts in the effort and even when he doesn't have time to see you, he makes time. When they say, "I'm too busy this week, i'll call you," it means he likely has time, but doesn't want to spare any for you. I know that there have been times, when my husband and I were still dating, that our schedules literally conflicted, but we always made the effort to see each other because that's love. I think theres almost an instant desire to please each other/ make each other happy when you're in love.

Answer 6

no, i've dated men who would call,make arrangements and show a lot of interest , but  a lot of them were only after one thing

Some men don't want to be pushy and seem obvious, they don't want to call and call bc it'll scare the girl off, so they'll act more reserved

Answer 7

Maybe he's trying to show some respect for you. He might think he don't want to do anything you don't want to do. Ask him where do you stand with him.

Answer 8

as a guy, i will go a distance to be with a girl, but i like to see the girl make the equal amount of effort to get my attention. As a teen i learned that by me doing everything would generally turn out into a bad relationship or it just won't turn into anything because she wasn't that into me.