When sending thank you cards for bridal shower gifts, do I address the man in the couple too?

Question

For example, Kerri came, but she's married to Mike. Do I address it to Kerri only? Or Mike too?

Answer 1

did they give you the gift as a couple? Most showerse just the girls.  If not then just her. Thank you for thinking of the thank you cards so many now do not. Very mature well taught.

Answer 2

You only address it to the girl/lady that attended your bridal shower.  

Answer 3

My bridal shower was last Saturday and I was thinking the same thing and asked around earlier. The response I got was just to the person that gave it to you; whoever it was from on the card.  My Aunt addressed my shower gift to me from both of them, yet some were just from the wife; so I'm sending mine out based on that.

Usually, the wedding gift thank you cards are addressed to couples, as they are usually from them both.

Congratulations!!

Answer 4

Only if the card they gave with the gift was signed from both of them. I would say unless his name was mentioned somewhere with the gift, address the female.