When should a guy move on in marriage/dating?

Question

So when should he move on? When she is abusive? Argues all of the time? Not being considerate? She not wanting to seek counseling with him?

10 points for best answer/real life story

Answer 1

All of the above, but starting with the first negative or demeaning thing she does to you, because it will only escalate to any of the others you mentioned...IF she's consistent, by all means, move on.

Not being considerate can mean she's selfish

Not wanting counseling with him could mean she's in denial (WARNING)

Emotional/physical abuse should NEVER be tolerated

Arguemental, she may be more miserable with herself and don't realize it

Like I mentioned, if either of these are on a consistent level, and ESPECIALLY if counseling is no longer an option, please let go of her and move on.

Answer 2

when the love is gone.  that lil saying  "Love conquers all," is so true.  You can get through anything if there is still love.  

Answer 3

maybe when the time come that he fell out of love..

like what I've said in my previous answer to you..

I can't blame 100% my husband when he cheat me..

I know in my self that I have flaws/mistake why

our marriage is in the rocks right now...

I forgot my wife duties when it came to bed..

I went home really tired & exhaust from the office..

after doing the household chores especially  attending my daughter needs I rather want to sleep..

i neglect sometime his needs.. for some reason that i tot he understand me..when i realize that i was wrong..

it's too late he found

the girl who willing to fulfill his bed needs.

now I know of feeling rejected & neglected..

and it's really hurt me right now..

Answer 4

When there is no use in trying any more, when she does't want to help improve the relationship, stop caring, very mean and negitive towards him, degrading, bringing him down constantly, to much fighting and arguing.

Neither is happy any more and they don't wanna fix it.