When should you dump a girlfriend, when you've kinda met someone else?

Question

i need to be careful here, my girlfriend is in america and was in a car crash about a month ago. i am in england myself. my g/f has a badly broke leg and is still in recovery. that is why she's not talking to me. i've only heard from my g/f about 5-6 times in the last month due to the crash. with couples, can you fall out of love with less contact or does wanting to see a person make the feeling grow. i am having mixture emotions towards g/f and i am not happy with the lack of contact. should i give her time or does it seem that i appear to be distant with her.

also, with a broken leg which she's had for a month, how long is the expected recovery time and dietary plan and exercises should my g/f be doing. i've swimming is good for healing joints, but her pop is still on.

Answer 1

i wonder how much swimming, dieting & exercise YOU would like to do if you had a badly broken leg!! - you are a selfish twit!!  

p.s. hope when she is better...she dumps you!!

Answer 2

Hey why have you not flown out to see her,you may get dumped first with your attitude.I'm sure the doctors in U.S.will give her advice on exercise,diet etc.

Answer 3

tell her how ya feel, if that doesn't change stuff then think about the next step

Answer 4

if you are having feelings for someone else then yes right away tell her, you g/f i mean, it is not fair , cheating toad!

find a pond and jump in!

Answer 5

MORE OF THIS c**p IN HORSE RACING? What, are you desperate for attention?

Answer 6

WHY did you post this in horse racing...?

Having a broken leg doesn't mean she's incapable of picking the phone up... If shes only spoken to you  five times in a month then she doesn't sound too bothered about you to be honest! It is possible to fall out of love with long distances, especially if you're bearly speaking. Its easy to forget why you go together in the first place. If you don't love her then leave her. Don't feel guilt tripped into staying with her cos of her accident.

Answer 7

drop dat hoe!

Answer 8

are you dating a racehorse?  Otherwise, this probably should've been posted somewhere else.