When someone's not being "nice"?

Question

what do you say to yourself when this happens. i'd like to come up with something so i'm not affected by that kind of behavior. i am a sensitive person and don't like it. any thoughts; thanx!

Answer 1

You say to yourself "lets not waste time on a tupid idiot like this"

And also, if they dont stop, jus ignore them. If they talk to you, dont reply... lol.

Answer 2

well when someone is not being nice to me i burn them across the face with my straight razer

Answer 3

Lock your room door and air out naked.

I swear to God.

Answer 4

well, it depends how someone's not being nice!

for instance, if someone is putting you down and/or making negative comments about you: just remember that they're probably insecure and are finding someone to be their punching bag.

if someone is going behind your back and sabotaging you then just get them out of your life all together!

etc. etc. I can't think of any more scenarios right now!

I hope that helps?!

Answer 5

Blow a palmful of pixie dust on them.

Answer 6

if you see it coming or see the same people,just picture in your mind rolling up a window like in a car.

see what happens!     lol....

works for me.

Answer 7

You know what the best defence is, smile at them and say have a good day. It knocks them off balance because they know they haven't upset you, and it makes you feel amazing because you are the mature one and haven't stooped to their level. Honestly just try it you will be amazed how it makes you feel.

Answer 8

"s***w that hippy"

Answer 9

As an abused child now that I'm in my thirties and over it, I like to say something funny back to people like that. It throws them off every time, Child remarks are the best like, "stop iiiiiiiit, your hurting my feelings" or "I'm telling" and so on

Answer 10

I always tell myself-

that as annoying as this person may be right now-

they are only occupying a brief few minutes

of my entire life's existence-

as opposed to whoever is forced to

live with them on a daily basis.

That always makes me feel so much better-

because I know it's true. ;-)

Answer 11

Maybe you ought to take a check on yourself and see what you are doing that causes others not to be nice.

Answer 12

You have to not care.  If someone is not being nice to you, it has nothing to do with you.  They are choosing to be mean.  You might have provoked them to be mad at you, but in the end they make the choice to not be "nice".  You just have to deal with the fact that people are not nice in the world, and ignore it.  If you react they will keeo being mean.

Answer 13

i say to myself

"dnt hit him/her calm down''

Answer 14

Just tell them to stop or tell someone who can hurt them oh or you can walk away.But if it was me i would do this.Snap out at them and say *%$# #@! *^% $!@#$%  #$%&^^ oops got carried away he heh.

Answer 15

i think you should stand up for yourself. even though it'll be awkward at first, it can be very liberating. so go out and tell that big fat meanie to *bug off*