When things forever change?

Question

how do you feel as you reminisce on the old times that you will never again see....... like when a close loved one or friend dies..... or you realize your family will never be as it was but you are all alone... how do you cope

Answer 1

I can relate to this....I went through a death, birth and break up in a very short period of time in my life. Its not easy but we manage to survive and ya know what,,,it makes us stronger people even when we think it doesn't.

The best advice I can give you from me is that we are never alone,,We always have ourselves,,Your best companion should be yourself first.If we love ourselves we wont feel so lonely but enjoy being alone. I am alone in one sense,,,I have children but no partner and it does get lonely at times but I only believe in myself more and make a life for myself which I properly would not have done if I had someone in my life that normally interferes.. You need to keep positive and focus on what you have instead of what you don;t have...No matter how  at times you may feel lonely,,,,,There is someone for everyone out there and its only a matter of time before they meet!!

Answer 2

well just be glad because God is still there when all things fall and you feel like your the only one who remains standing...you just need to trust in God.

Answer 3

I have a quote I live by these days because things have forever changed.  I hope it helps you too.  "I believe that our background and circumstances may have influenced who we are, but we are responsible for who we become".  Live, Laugh, Love like today is the last day of your life. Peace!  You are only alone as much as YOU allow. Let people into your world and find out who your real friends are.