When we are not together we fight?

Question

when we are not together with my bf we fight,i have insecurities and a negative feeling when i am not with him, and we start a fight from nothing,my bf assures me that nothing is going on and that he loves me,but i don't know why i have these negative feelings that i can not control,maybe is because he works night actually from 11am -2.30 am,i love him very much and when he reassures me i feel fine

Answer 1

Are you insecure? I dealt with the same thing with my ex boyfriend because i was so insecure with how i looked and such. We have been broken up for awhile now due to the fights and in the end i found out he never cheated or did anything to hurt me. So i kinda screwed that up.

Just know that if he does love you, then he won't hurt you. It's probably just nerves that get ya!

Answer 2

You just need to realize that your boyfriend loves you. :) If he wanted to go be out with girls, he would but he is with you for a reason. If you start to get jealous and insecure it might steer him away.  The reason you feel better when he reassures you is because you WANT to trust him you just don't entirely yet. Just be confident and know that if he doesn't want you he will leave you. I'm sure you have nothing to worry about.

Good luck!

Answer 3

You need to relax. The more and more you go on the more he is gonna get sick of it and start to actually do something or just straight up leave you. If he tells you that he loves you and eveything is fine you need to trust him. My husband works crazy hours too and there is never a doubt in my mind that he doesnt love me or that he is doing something. Just relax, Good luck sweetie.

Answer 4

Go With What You Feel

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