When would be a good time to tell a new friend that you're homo/bisexual?

Question

i have made a lot of male and female friends at school. do i need to make it an obligation to tell them im bisexual? i mean eventually i will start dating again and if i date a girl then they might think im a L*****n and wonder why i didnt tell them. should i just wait it out?

Answer 1

I think you should tell them sooner rather than later. Be casual about it. No need to kiss one of the girls around you to make your point.

This way you won't build friendships with people who don't accept you for who you are.  

Answer 2

only if they ask

Answer 3

I dont usually scream it from the rooftops. I just tell people in conversation when it comes up, as in talking about past and current relationships, who I think is hot etc.

Answer 4

You should start every relationship by being completely honest about yourself.

Tell them now, because if they reject you after you wait and then tell them, it will be a complete loss and you'll be hurting yourself thinking about it.

So, tell your new friend now before things go further....if they can accept you for being who you are, then they will be good friends.

If they reject you at the beginning, you're better off without them.

*Best Wishes*

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Answer 5

you need to tell them right off. And if they don't like it oh well. But you have to be true to yourself. I had asked questions like that on here and people called me a L*****n and I'm not. I think I'm just bi too. So in this world there are people who will cut you down and people who will support you. It's your job to seek out those who will support you. You need people like that in order to make it through this crazy thing we call life. Love to you. Be you. Only you can make you a better you.

Answer 6

well, sooner than later, one thing is that if you tell them and they hate you for it then there not really your friend, bla bla bla, i sound so much like my mom, lol! but really take your time and tell them when you feel ready to tell him/her! hope this helps  

Answer 7

If they are your real friends, then they already know, you just have to comeout and tell them.  Gaydar baby, alot of us have it.