When you're a kid, do the limitations of how you imagine your partner pre-decide who you eventually go for?

Question

When you're a kid, do the limitations of how you imagine your possible partner and kids affect who you do (and who you DON'T) eventually go for and end up with?

Maybe to some degree we never let go of how limited our visions of our future are when we're little.

Answer 1

It had more to do with my up bringing than anything else.