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When you and your husband have a big age difference did you ever cheat?

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Say if your husband is like 15 max years older than you are did you ever cheat on with him some one your own age. Be honest and if you did how long did it last?

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I know you said 15 years max, but I'm going to throw in my two cents worth:

I've been married to a wonderful man (who is 50) for the last 7 years (I am 28, that's 22 years difference for those allergic to maths)

I would NEVER cheat on him because we are married and it is against the rules.

And what would be the point in going with a younger man? I married hubby for his maturity to name just one reason, so younger men just don't equate. At all.
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Age doesn't have anything to do with whether or not you are a cheat-if you are -you are.
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My ex husband was 13yrs older than I was. I didnt cheat...he did!

Apparently he likes them young...and guess what? I didnt stay young. He is now remarried to a 21yr old...he's 46!

Yep, gotta keep em young!

If your doubting that YOU will cheat, that means something wants you to. Your not satified with some part of your relationship and thats what you should deal with.

Good Luck!!
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How could you not? Who wants a man that old? Go for the young hot ones!
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Some do that for not to feel "old".
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d**n, people are mean on here. I haven't. But I see where you're coming from. It's not easy being with someone who's ten years older than you. I wish I would have married someone who was more in my age group so that I could better relate but I didn't. Don't cheat though. Either stay or go. That's not fair to the other person.
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You knew the age difference when you first married him, so don't use that as an excuse to cheat. When you married him, how serious were you about your vows? There is a 7 yr. age difference between my husband and me, and I have never even entertained the thought of cheating on him. Please erase the negative thought.
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No. I was with a couple of guys much older than me, one 12 years older and one about 14 years older than I am now. I never cheated on him, but he was cheating on his wife (although he was separated they were working it out). The other was single. I didn't exactly cheat on my ex, although he calls it cheating, I broke up with him that day (and it had been coming for awhile, he knew this) and went out with someone else. At times I kinda feel like I did cheat but know I really didn't. If that makes sense.
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Age has nothing to do with it. Don't blame the age difference for cheating on your husband.
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Marriage is about faith and trust.

There is no room for cheating.

Your referring to cheating based only on age is wrong.

That is why you should think thousand times before jumping in for an old guy.
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DONT HAVE THAT PROBLEM BUT IF IT WAS THE SITUATION I WOULD NOT CHEAT~I WOULDN'T MARRY SOMEONE OLDER THAN ME IF I THOUGHT I WOULD HAVE TO CHEAT, IF YOU LOVE THEM AND THE AGE DIDN'T MATTER TO MARRY HIM YOU SHOULDN'T CHEAT
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If you weren't considering cheating in some way, shape, or form, then why on earth would you be asking this question? It's a question that goes beyond the scope of pure curiosity.

Cheating is cheating, no matter what form it takes, and in every instance it is wrong.
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why are you looking to cheat on your spouse? if you truly loved him and respected him, you wouldn't look to cheat with anyone else no matter what the age difference is. cheating is a sign of disrespect for your relationship! if you are so unhappy about your relationship, get a divorce or work with a marriage counselor to figure out why you are unhappy.
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I don't think cheating has to do with age.  My father was much older than my mother,  she ended up cheating.  The guy she hooked up with was only 2 years older than her.  And he constantly cheated on her.

  She stayed with the cheater.  Both are now in their late sixties.  And though she says sexually he can't even get it up.  The old fool still makes a fool of himself when he finds a woman attractive.
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You r cheating on your husband or on your way to do it.
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I'm a person who believes in loyalty, I don't get how someone could stab someone who probably cares deeply for them in the back just so they could fufill their own sexual gratification which chances are the person who deeply cares about you would have been happy to fufill if you gave him/her (its not just girls or guys) the chance. You want honesty there it is
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OK REGARDLESS OF AGE YOU DON"T CHEAT!!!!!!!

What is wrong with people these days!
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uhhhhhh i wouldnt have married somebody 15yrs older than me 1st of all and cheating is not a option with me when your married!!(well that's how i feel not to sure about the rest)
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The age shouldn't have anything to do with it. If you love your husband then you will keep those vows. You knew the age difference when you married. Cheating is never a good ideal and using the age excuse won't work. The fact is, you are sorry your married, period!
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