I'm a mom,and have been for 8 years.My best friend isn't a mom yet.People constantly tell her that she'll think differently when she's a mom.She has a lot of experience with kids, and has been working with violent, abused, mentally challenged, etc. kids for years.Sometimes, I go to her for advice about MY kid!It really drives me nuts when people tell her she doesn't know what she's talking about.Granted, she doesn't know what it's like to be a mom 24/7,but that's about the only thing she doesn't know.
So, when you became a mom, did you change YOUR mind about everything you knew about parenting?For instance, if you didn't believe in spanking,did you suddenly start beating your kids?Because,I swear,this is the c**p people tell my best friend.They act like she can't say she won't spank until she's a mom because she doesn't know what it's like.I'm sorry,but she's had kids beating her up,and she never hit them. I didn't start beating my kid just because I became a mom.
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