When you first had a boyfriend or a girlfriend..?

Question

were you quiet? I was quiet and shy. I talked on internet so much but face to face, no.. I think its about experience, isnt it? Because now I feel like Im starting to relax be mself and all that. Im actually becoming talkative infront of the guys. I have guy friends alot right now then before. so was it normal to not talk to guys or boyfriend or be shy and unconfortable with the guy you first/second/thirth went out with?

Answer 1

I was 12 and I just kind a thought it was fun.

It meant nothing what so ever, but I wanted to feel grown and acted like it was the best thing in the world. In reality, it was stupid. Why should someone have a relationship at that age?!

First relationships are always hard, and sometimes it takes time to feel comfortable. But you eventually ease into it. Just let the person know though, don't give them the wrong vibe.

Answer 2

i was only 12 wen i got together with my bf.. i was totally shy. he was about 14/15 i guess. wen he asked me out, i ran to my cousin and asked her if i should say yes to the guy.. i gave him the reply and ran back to the house.., that was silly.. our first kiss.., yeah, i was a problem.: i first refused thinking that he will bite me... we went out for four years..

i thnk da 1st bf/gf gives you all the butterfly and you are just afraid of making a fool of yourself and the changing his/her mind the next day..but its an experience i will love to go back to and change the whole scene....  

Answer 3

its definately understandable how you feel.

it's typically normal to act this way...

as long as you relax and be yourself,

ppl will be more comfortable with you

which will then help you not have a problem at all

with the comfort of being with your boyfriend

or guys or anybody!

=)

Answer 4

I remember with my first boyfriend i was scared sh*tless.

As i got older i got more comfortable with guys and now it feels just like im talking to a friend.

Answer 5

umm im 14 and i had a bf for 3months..and we talked lots and our familys were close so i saw him lots :]

but im not with him anymore.........but its 4 the good :]

Answer 6

my first girlfreind was my hand... sad eh?

hey...that was my only girlfreind... well me and my hand share something special...