When you have been hurt, how many chances will you give the one who hurt you to make it up to you?

Question

and what is your sun, moon, and venus sign?

I am just curious if there is any patterns.

Answer 1

It really depends on if i think they care about others or not. If they hurt me really badly i will always remember it, and especialy if they don't really care or notice. But if they are like family then i will put it behind me because i know i have hurt people and not really intentially ment to do it

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If i am with someone who makes me more sad then happy i will not stay with them though, if thats what you are refereing to. I think the first time is an indicator that they are not a considerate person, or it could be a mistake, but a sceond time is a deffinitly indicator that they are not a good friend/partner for me.

for me, its not many chances and i spose its because my leo and scorp aspects i realy need loyalty and cancer is extra sensitive.

sun cancer

moon scorip

venus leo

Answer 2

one is ouch, where did that come from......two is uh, i see it coming.....three is....wtpfff? again?

so, for me, at the most is three chances. though sometimes, for certain circumstances, a second is already enough. three seems like a moderate number and more than three is just a waste of time, energy, feelings and thoughts put to it.

i believe, life is short, dont spend your precious time w a person who is too saturated with his/ her own self to even bother to learn from their past mistakes.

my friends say, i have a high tolerance level towards bs. guess i do. with a limit. =)

cancer sun

aries moon

gemini venus

Answer 3

i love this question.........for me being the stubborn lion i am if you hurt me once then it is mission impossible to get with me ever again, things can never be the same with me ever again, cuz i can never trust the person especially in a relationship, its almost guaranteed i will never be with you again, but if there is a slight chance i do go back with you, there was some major azz kissing

sun leo w/ moon in aries

Answer 4

Yes, I've been hurt.  You don't give someone many chances to make up to me once I'm hurt.  Maybe one chance depending on the situation.  Libra-sun, Aquarius-moon, and Scorpio-vensus.

Answer 5

Anyone can make a mistake, so I think everyone deserves another chance. But when they **** up that second time, it's good bye from me! It hurts too much if people disappoint you time and time again, so it's better to just cut ties with unreliable people.

Pisces Sun, Taurus Moon, Venus in Aquarius