When you hear that someone has passed....?

Question

Like in the Military or a friend of a friend ir you read it in the paper, do you light a candel?

Answer 1

I don't understand this myself really - like when my wife died, there were a few people who said they lit a candle - and what in the world did that accomplish? it's like they do that in lieu of talking to you or something?  ok so they lit a candle and that was supposed to help you?  

I don't get it.

Answer 2

Lighting a candle in honor of a deceased person is a common ritual.  Many people see it as an act of honor, and a chance for reflection and introspection regarding the departed.  However, it normally is a religious thing.  Though, if you are not religious then you could just think of it as a person reflection thing.

Answer 3

Catholics light candles after they pray for someone as  a way to perpetuate their prayer for that person...sort of a spiritual leaving the light on...keep the prayer going as long as the light burns.  it has to do with Jesus being the light of the world and we are also to be a light of the world.  

Any demonstration of reverence and compassion is appropriate and has a cultural aspect to it to.  It is always okay to ask a family member what is done in their tradition to honor the dead.

Answer 4

I say a prayer for the deceased & the family as well. Lighting a candle in remembrance of someone who has passed, is a very thoughtful gesture. One's religious beliefs have nothing to do with it.

**Ignore marlene k's sarcastic comments**

Answer 5

We don't light candles in our church (think that's mainly a Catholic thing), but send cards and go to visitations, etc. if I can.  Paying your respects is important to me.

All the best.

Answer 6

NO. Whats the point in lighting a candle?  Do you think it will get them to heaven??? Show me in the bible where it says to light a candle.

Answer 7

No, I just think about them for a few days, then see if they had a myspace!