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When you lost your virginity did it hurt?

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just curious. i dont really plan on losing mine anytime soon.

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  1. I guess everyone is different. I was always scared because people said it hurt sooooooo bad. It hurt me, but not as bad as I thought it was going to, it's more uncomfortable. You do bleed the first time though. But after the first time it didn't hurt at all:-)


  2. Well if you lose it to someone you trust and love then yeah it will hurt, but not as much as it would if you were losing it to just some guy you just have feelings for and no more no less.. it's because the more you trust (him) the more relaxed your muscles will be...  When I lost mine it did hurt the majority of the time because i wasn't ready like i thought i was... But it's really good you're planning on waiting! i wish I had of done that!

  3. yeah, it did. It gets better after a few times, but I remember it was like ouch... ouch... oooouch... OWWWW!

  4. It does at first when he pushes in...but not too bad. You're too hyped up on the adrenaline and love - you hardly feel it!

  5. not with everyone

    but it was quite uncomfetble with me

  6. i havent lost mines yet but I heard it does

  7. YES IT FELT LIKE SOMEONE SHOVED...A FLAME THROWER UP THERR

  8. No it felt weird but it didn't hurt.. you hear horror stories of it.. but its not that painful trust me. when he first goes to enter you will feel a slight pain but not bad it is just that its stretching farther that it has before

    its not painful it just feels awkward..

    if it hurt that bad.. do you think people would keep doing it?

  9. Yes

  10. Yep hurt like h*ll !!!!!!!!

  11. No, it was fine!

  12. Yes. Not gonna lie to you. Think about it...you have a long thing going into you so skin is getting stretched. But once it is in there for a little bit, it doesn't hurt as bad anymore. It is the initial pain...then you'll enjoy it.

  13. O.o

  14. yes. unless you wait until your body is ready.. like in your twenties..

    the reason it hurts for teenagers is because there body is puffy inside the v-jay and their bodies arent ready for s*x

  15. I had a horrible experience, so I wouldn't want to worry you.

  16. its quite uncomfortable but its best to be relxed and not tense cuz that causes more pain and also dont think about it so much becuz that can make u more tensed

  17. yes very much..like a foot was down there..

  18. It was just a little uncomfortable for me...then a couple of seconds of real pain...after that it was aaallll good. I also was a bit sore the next day...

    I think as long as you are comfortable and relaxed and trust your partner it is a wonderful experience. This isn't something to worry too much about, it's a natural process for the body. It's great that you are waiting! It gives you plenty of time to find the right relationship and love that deserves such a great gift! Good for you!

  19. Uh.. hurt? Slightly odd question, but no, it doesn't =s

  20. Didnt hurt for me cause I used tampons before I had s*x. I didn't know that most girls don't use them until after they've had s*x, but I didn't know better and would just use my moms. When I had s*x, it really didnt hurt at all

  21. how bad did it hurt?

  22. My first time was very pleasurable. I was willing and i was ready and that makes all the difference. I was also a tampon user prior to losing my virginity so i think that has something to do with it why it didnt hurt me. You have to be mentally prepared for it.

  23. yes, it did hurt....and bleed a little

  24. i hear it hurts for the first few times =/

    and ive heard things about bleedng =/

    haha but i dont know peresonally..

  25. well i wouldn't no cause I'm still a v*****

    but someone told me that it hurts when ur nervous b-CZ u muscles tighten down there.

    lol

  26. From what I hear YES

  27. it hurts if you haven't broken your hymen yet,

    which is a thin layer of skin in your v****a. some girls have broken it before having s*x because they used tampons, or because they've been fingered.

    so my first time did hurt.

    but after my first time, it was painless

  28. yes very bad, but not nearly as much as the first 3 months after I had my baby!

  29. IT JUST FEELS LIKE SOMETHING IS BEING SHOVED IN YOUR v****a. OR LIKE IF HE IS FORCING SOMETHING THAT DOESNT FIT IN YOUR v****a...LOL THATS WHAT I FELT LIKE IF I WAS GONNA RIP..

  30. yes it did.

  31. It hurts for the woman, not for the man.

    Men don't ever have the joy of feeling pain from anything... which is a reason why so many of them are sleazy I think...

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