When you love someone that doesn't love you back how can you make that feeling go away?

Question

im falling for one of my best friends and i cant tell him cuz i dont want to werid out the friendship but sometimes i get the feeling that he likes me too but im confused about what i should do any help?

Answer 1

.,hmm..

.,just keep onto your mind that he doesn't deserve you..

.,or..

.,this sounds silly but.. try this..

.,think of things that makes you turn off about him..

Answer 2

My answer would depend on your age and experience. If you're not legal, I would suggest asking him what type of girl is he into. If he describes you, hint around to being "that girl."  

Answer 3

just put urself out there and see where it goes maybe he will feel the same way and yall will get together

if i he doesnt u didnt lose anything

but if he does u gain a boyfriend

nothing ventured nothing gained

Answer 4

How do you know he doesn't like you back? How do you know you  "love" him? That is a strong word! Either way, you'll never know what could be if you don't give it a shot. Tell him how you feel, but I wouldn't use the word love, that might weird him out.

Answer 5

I would do whats natural. Go on a date, if he likes you too then you guys cant help it.

Why would you fight that feeling?

Answer 6

Well, first of all, its next to impossible to fall out of love. You can ignore those feelings all you want but they are there until you grow out of it or move on. I don't know the situation between you and this friend but telling him about these feelings can help, as scary as it can be. Talk to him as a friend and let him know that you value the friendship, you trust his opinions but that you think you may be developing stronger feelings for him. Ask him if he's ever thought of the possibility of the two of you moving beyond 'friends' into something more romantic. Chances are he has but its something you need to discuss maturely and calmly and figure out where you're relationship is headed. Do you both agree to try dating or would you be better off staying friends? You won't know unless you ask- and bottling your feelings inside is painful. Some of the best relationships can blossom from best friends so you just never know. Good luck!

Answer 7

Oh, that feeling is awful. You can't wait to see him, but when you see him you feel frustrated because you can't hold him and kiss him and tell him how much you love him. I think you should give him hints, if he responded that would be great. If he didn't respond, then you must stop seeing him. It will get harder and harder. God helps you

Answer 8

why don't you talk to your friend?

you can't make the feeling go away.

Answer 9

If I were you I would tell him. But just let him know that you dont want it to affect the friendship. If he is truly your best friend then he will remain your friend even if he doesnt feel the same way.