When you shouldn't be attracted to someone?

Question

i don't like this guy's personality, i don't like him as a person, but i feel that wild animal magnetism whenever he's near. how is it possible i feel this if i do not like him as a human being. needless to say i'm not proud of myself for that. how do i walk away? this kind of attraction only comes once in a lifetime, and it's making it so difficult. thanx for comments

Answer 1

Why do you have to walk away? Why don't you like his personality? I mean if he's a jerk, a player, a sleez, but you still get all hot for him, why don't you just "see" him or you can have a casual sexual relationship without making things complicated. Not everything has to be a formal relationship.

Answer 2

Perhaps there is something unresolved from a past life experience.

Be very cautious, and try not to put yourself in situations where you are around him, if you can avoid it.

Try meditating to see if you can get some insight.

Answer 3

I would apply this question as written to different areas of Answers to get some ideas.

I do not consider my answer parapsychology.

I also think this is apart of being humane.

It is said that we can be repulsed or attracted to others for different reasons. If you feel this person is lets say evil perhaps this is the attraction.

One is to look at your attraction as self study and mastering over self.

Enjoy the senses and explore where your body and mind goes during these times.

Perhaps ask your self questions like does this attraction lead me to or away to my life choices?

What is the attraction? Do I want to master or have power over this person?

Do I  want to master this and call it up when with my life partner in creating this attraction in the future?

I disagree on once in a life time.

This idea could be apart of the attraction and justification.

Answer 4

When I was in high school..one of my teachers told us to never go out with somebody we wouldn't want to marry...cause you never know who you'll fall in love with. If he's the type of person you wouldn't want to marry...don't go out with him or anything else...except be a friend. If he's abusive now..he'll be worse after marriage. If he's repulsive now...he'll be more repulsive married. Or ...wait and see if he changes ..then if he does...go out with him then. But if you do it now..you're saying you like the way he is. He'll think the bad things are what attracted you to him. I believe there are spirits around us. You might be feeling an Incubus or Sucubus...and you don't want one of those for sure.

Answer 5

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Answer 6

to be honest i hated my current fiance when i met him. i thought he was an awful person. but he was living with my best friend's boyfriend so we were around each other all the time. after being around him once in a different setting i realized he wasn't the person that he seemed to be. i slowly but surely fell in love with him. and now we are going to get married!

Answer 7

Animal magnetism. Do you mean he gets you horny?

Maybe you really are attracted to him and keep telling yourself that you aren't?

Or you already know he makes you feel vulnerable and you don't want to get your heart broken.

Answer 8

Maybe you have this need to be RIGHT all the time.

What I mean is that you already know this guy isn't your type, you're not attracted to him, and you don't even like him.

So if you get involved with him, and he screws you over, then it validated your reasoning for not liking him all along.

Answer 9

You should really be serious about who you pick to  be with in life,so please don't go for this animal attraction.

Answer 10

As they say, "opposites attract"... but honestly, once the roaring fire quiets to a smoldering flame... you'll still be agitated by his personality. if he challenges your conventions then this could be a good growing process, if he's just nasty and hostile... then this may not be so good. it's up to you though...

Figure out what you like and don't like about him and if the pros outweigh the cons then you might give this guy a chance... but it depends on how YOU feel about him. Trust your heart...

Answer 11

Basically you are saying that you find this person sexually attractive but don't like his personality.

Simple solution would be to bonk him until you are sick of it and have got him out of your system and then move on and find someone more suitable.

Be careful not to get knocked up or a disease.

Only do this if you are over the age of consent.

Answer 12

We nice guys have been dealing with this forever.You gals love a bad guy. Don't worry,that once in a lifetime thing is B.S.He's not the last jerk you'll find.Believe me,we nice guys suffer unmercifully because of you bad guy chasers.

Answer 13

Woman...get some physical relief! Honestly, you won't be attracted to him anymore...

*Well, who's to say that your just the only one who is sensitive to his strong sexual energy?