When you try to leave someone before they leave you, is that a trust issue?

Question

Let me give you and example, the first week I started dating my BF I broke my foot at his house so when I told him it was broken I told him this was his chance to run since I was going to be a bit of a pain for awhile. Or if we have a disagreement I will suggest maybe we weren't meant to be.

Do you think this is a trust issue, fear of getting hurt or something else?

Answer 1

It doesn't sound like a trust issue to me. You didn't say he's talking to other girls, or acting weird when he's with his friends, or anything that says I don't trust him. I think it just sounds like you are not really enthusiastic about the relationship, like you are just looking for an out. If you're really not feeling it with him, then you should look to break it off. Just let him know (if this is the case) that it's just not working for you. Don't just disappear. I know I used to hate when that happened, and no idea why.

Answer 2

it is a fear of comment on your part

Answer 3

Yes that's your self-esteem getting in the way of your relationship which is not a good thing at all. .

You got to try your best not to say those things b/c eventually hes going to think that's what you truly feel inside and then he might actually bail or it might start a very bad argument... and to think he left or that caused damage to you guys just because you said those things really for no good reason at all. You will be hurt in the end (besides him).

Answer 4

You have a trust issue, and you like to live dangerously.