When your heart and mind are at odds, how do you decide??? Instinct?? Facts??

Question

When your heart and mind are at odds, how do you decide??? Instinct?? Facts??

Answer 1

Usually when your instinct doesn't feel right it means that something is not right. Tread carefully.

As for facts...well, it can be manipulated or you could be getting the wrong or inadequate facts. Have you ever thought of that? Nothing is what it seems to be.

One can always play with someone's mind but not someone's instinct.

Answer 2

Flip the coin.

Answer 3

I usually let others lead me.

Answer 4

facts....I'm not sure about my instinct (its can be influence by my emotions)

Answer 5

give the matters of the heart to heart. and matters of the mind to mind.

to explain:

when you decide about love, relationship or art, you better listen to what your heart tells you because heart can see what mind or eyes cannot see.

when you decide about business, money matters, or buying things, you must use your head. decisions like these needs to be backed-up with correct facts and datas.

instincts can be a good basis of decision making if you are an experienced person already.

Answer 6

ask someone that i realy trust or just follow my instinct

Answer 7

The heart says yes, the head says no.

Very often I find myself giving in to the heart.

Answer 8

throw a coin to decide.

Answer 9

Instinct plays important role when I'm at odds and it never fails me.

Answer 10

depends on the situtations

if got enought facts,then i'll go with the facts

if not, i'll use my instinct

Answer 11

That's tough. Look at the facts first and then decide. But if my instincts tell me otherwise, I'll follow my heart

Answer 12

yeah! like daun ketum..

flip the coin..

"i make my own luck" heheehe

i wish i can be more sensible by follow n decide base on facts..

Answer 13

I analyse....

Answer 14

I listen to my heart coz it's controlled by my mind.

Answer 15

Stomach feeling.....errr or is it gut feeling ?

Answer 16

follow what the mind is thinking. But never on instinct, just plain facts weighing on the pros and cons

Answer 17

..i go with the mind...and facts...and religion....coz the heart can fool u at times....

Answer 18

Think of the logical and it's consequences.

Whichever i choose, i always think about the consequences!

be it heart, mind, woman's SUPER instinct, or facts!

and i don't flip coins!

Answer 19

i ll go for instinct...

Answer 20

With facts is better. If with instinct, sometimes good but sometimes will be bad for you.