When your husband/boyfriend or significant other is not watching, do you check his/her cell phone?

Question

Is it bad? Why do you do it?

Answer 1

well i don't know if it's bad or not you should be able to trust the person your with but i don't really trust men lol so i do it and i've found out a lot of stuff from doing it.and if you don't find anything you have a good husband and should be proud

Answer 2

No, I trust my Husband completely.

Answer 3

I check everything...sometimes even when he looks! I don't car if it gets him mad. He has given me reason enough not to trust him so if he wants to do something dodgy again I am not going to make it easy for him!!!

Answer 4

No, I choose to trust girlfriends. I give the benefit of the doubt, until there is a reason not to. Its all about trust!

Answer 5

No, and that was my problem. I should have done that. Could have spared myself some heartache that was coming.

Answer 6

h**l yes  I check his phone in fornt of him hes not hiding anything so he donst mind

Answer 7

It's all about trust so no I don't.  A wise pimp once said, "If you don't trust the b*tch, you should kick her to the ditch."

Answer 8

every now and then if it rings or she gets a text I may look and see if it is someone important but I try (very hard) not to be tempted to pry into her phone.

Answer 9

If he did that to you, how would you feel?  Or maybe went snooping through your purse or other personal things?  Of course it's bad, it's a violation.  Do you take money from his wallet, too?

Answer 10

no I trust my hubby completely

Answer 11

nope....I have no reason to...I trust my SO

Answer 12

when we first started yes I did..I know i should not have but i did anyways...did I find anything bad No because I should of had more trust in him...truth is at first i did not trust him much been cheated on too many times before...but I am over that now!

Answer 13

No I trust him 100%

Answer 14

I only check his phone because he says he's getting charged to much, so he knows about it...

Answer 15

depends if i am suspecting something ?  

Answer 16

It would never occur to me to check his phone.

Answer 17

No, if I didn't trust him I wouldn't be with him. Not to say that I don't keep my eyes open because I know that ya never do know....But I'm not going to drive myself crazy and obsess and snoop. I wouldn't want him snooping through my stuff.

Answer 18

I had an ex who did that. That's why she's my ex. If you don't have trust, you don't have anything.  

Answer 19

No I haven't, had no reason to. I've never been suspicious of my husband. Never had a reason to be. I trust him because I know he loves me and that he is a good man.

Are you checking your bf's phone? Why? Maybe you should be talking with your partner and figure out your problems. Something isn't right there.  

Answer 20

Do I? No! I would if he gave me a reason to think badly but until then I don't invade his privacy and he stays out of mine... It's all about trust!

Is it bad to do it? Yes, if he didn't give u a reason to do so. U gotta trust the one ur w/ and if there's no trust then what kind of relationship do u have??

Answer 21

no.  and btw, my ex hsb had a cell phone for at least two years before i found out about it.  hid it at work or where the dogs slept.  actually, he had two phones.  and i can say, i didnt have the other one!  

so, in the future...yes, i would check!!!

Answer 22

well...i usually wait for a SURE reason that he is cheating before i check the cellphone...but i have done it occasionally. Sometimes you cant trust instinct.

Answer 23

No I don't check his cell phone, and he is not doing that to me either. There should be a issue of trust in a marriage/relationship. And if you can't love and respect each other, space, and privacy then maybe you don't need to be together.

Answer 24

Haha, well im a 12 year old. and well i do it to my older brother, cause well you know he doesnt like when i do it, so i do it! :)  but, i guess if the person you are talking about, is acting strange, then yes, i think you should deffinitely look. Best time to look at their cell phone? when they're sleeping. or ask them "can i see your phone?" and they'll usually give it up to you, and then you can kinda like lean to the opposite way they are, and you can read their text messages, watch their videos, look at pictures, and who their contacts are.