Well,I'm not sure if I'm making scenes,but this thought has been in my head for a few weeks and I wanna hear a parents opinion on this.
So I was thinking as a kid you grow up,you see the mistakes your parents make with you and you say "I won't make that mistake they did with my children" but then one day when your older you make that same mistake with your child your parent did.Cause I was talking to my grandparens about my dad and like his past.
My dad's dad(my grandpa) he wasn't around for my dad,he bailed out on him when he was little,so he grew up with his mom's boyfriends as a father figure around.Well my dad was only 17 when I was born and my grandparents told me that he always told them he'd never walk out on me and that he'd be there for me no matter what,because he always wanted to make sure I had a great childhood,better then his he said because he didn't have a great childhood and he wanted me to have a better one then he did.But when I was 1 my mom and him broke up and my mom bailed out.and lived in Connecticut,and my dad was still determinded to not make the mistake his father made with him.So my dad lived with my grandparents here in Florida,and he took care of me and did all that,but then when I turned 2 he left to go off and date some girl in a different state.Now 14 years later I have no clue where my dad is,but you can tell,even though he made a promise to not make the same mistake he still did.
In your opinion,if your parents made some mistake like that and then one day you have children,don't you wanna make sure your kids won't suffer any kinda pain you may have gone threw dealing with those kinds of issues or any kind that could make a child have a bad childhood?
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