Where's the best place for a good guy to meet a beautiful girl? ?

Question

Beautiful on the inside and outside of course. :) So where's the best place to meet a mid-20's girl OTHER than a bar, nightclub, or cocktail lounge?? I'm looking for a girlfriend, NOT a one night stand!

I live in a major US city, btw, so in theory my chances of finding someone *should* be good.

So far, joining classes (yoga, cycling, and other classes at the gym) hasn't worked out...they are all too old, too young, or too taken. Online dating hasn't worked. Myspace, no way. And everywhere else I seem to look, the ratios of single women don't seem to be in my favor. So instead of watching my dating life pass me by by *hoping* I will run into the girl of my dreams in the aisle of the grocery store, what are some ways to be a little bit more proactive about finding available women?

What are some other ideas of places where ratios are more in my favor???

Answer 1

Well, actually, I think that it is kind of impossible to find a girl that is beautiful on the outside and inside. I don't have any places to recommend, but good luck!

Answer 2

Actually, you mentioned the grocery store- that is actually a really good place to meet girls. I worked in one for a couple years before i got a real job and i met all kinds of awesome girls. Another place is college but it looks like that time has passed for you. Try looking up some dancing classes/ studios around the area. My girlfriend made me go salsa dancing and i had all kinds of girls ask me to dance with them. And you get to be close to them so it makes it easy to find someone special.  

Answer 3

Well, normally I would say the classes route is the best one.  I know it hasn't worked so far, but the best place to meet someone is when you're doing something you like, because chances are, the person you meet there will be there because they like it too.  So, do what you like!  Go jogging, go to the library, join a movie critics club or something - maybe your soul mate will be waiting.  What about school?  are you in college?  college is one of the best places to meet new people, either with homework help or a burger joint everyone goes to.  I'm sure there are plenty of single women out there, maybe you just need to change your perspective.  I don't know if you'll see a girl and instantly know "she's my soul mate."  You might find someone who is attractive and funny or has a personality similar to yours, through work, school, or hobbies.  Believe me, life is not a movie.  Your soul mate will (probably) not need you to save her from a speeding truck and then fall into your arms or something.  Maybe you should also try letting your friends know you are ready and waiting.  I'm sure they know available women who you could get in touch with.  Family relations also always seem to know possible dates - they can be on the lookout for you too.  Good Luck!