Where Are You?!?

Question

In the year of 1989 or 1990, my biological mom supposedly made love to a guy in Orlando named "Toby". He was told to be short, blonde hair, blue eyes, and MARRIED. I was born 10 months later and couldent be taken care of and adopted by my step grandmother. my biological mom keeps changing whos the dad....but people in the family say its toby and the reason its changing is because she wants the one shes with at the moment to be my real biological dad. Im searching for him...but i dont know a last name...i wish i could find out who he is so i could fill that emptiness that i feel when i remember i dont have a biological dad. Please if anyone has ANY info to give...please share....

Answer 1

Honey, I wish I could help you. My heart goes out to you and wish you the best of luck.

Answer 2

I'm sorry you are hurting.

Your Mom is your best source for finding you biological father. Talk to her and let her know that it is important to you to know who your father is. Reassure her that you will always love her and that nothing will change between the two of you.

Also, explain to her for medical reasons it would be prudent to know who he is. If he has any genetic conditions that he may have passed on to you, you will need to be able to give his medical history to your doctor. Just another important reason to know who your father is.

Good luck. I hope you find him.