Wow. I posted a question about getting a sibling gift for an adopted sister and have gotten several unempathetic, inconsiderate, rude responses. I thought this site was about education, not ridiculing the question asker. I am trying to find my footing with adoption, as I really want to do it up right, but judging me as a person does not educate me and diminishes the effectiveness of the message the answerer is trying to send. When you are a waiting parent, so much emphasis is placed on acknowledging that an adoption did take place and honoring the birth family. I am appalled and saddened by the negativity, especially since my heart is truly in the right place. Regardless I hope all of you have a great holiday season and that the spirit of the season catches you soon and stays with you all year.
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