Where can i find details suggesting on how a father should behave to his son? ?

Question

what can a father tell and what shouldnt be told. When and how etc??

Answer 1

fathering come naturally..people usually reflect on their own father picking and choosing techniques the liked and didnt. however, some behavioral traditions move on from one generation to the next.

eventually, the son should know almost everything his father knows. everyday of the sons life has opportunities for a dad to teach and prevent him from making big mistakes

Answer 2

Consider what you say and do to your child and whether or not it will facilitate them in growing up into a decent human being.

Answer 3

As far as the detail in your question is concerned - tell your son what you feel he needs to know, or tell him the answers to the questions he's asking. When and how - when he asks, and honestly. Make sure you find out why he's asking the question, though. If he asks you something strange, say 'What do you mean?' And then answer according to how he's elaborated. If he responds with an embarrassed 'Never mind..' Call him back and say that it's okay to ask you anything and not be embarrassed. Never get angry with him for asking a question, but if for some reason you think what he's asked is inappropriate, tell him so and give him a thorough explanation as to why you're not going to answer, again, without getting angry or upset.

In general, behave towards your son with affection and kindness - how you act is what he's going to copy, so try to be the best example you can be. Don't scream at him or hit him if he does something wrong, make sure you have his attention and then explain to him why what he did was wrong, and try to give a consequence that correlates to both his age and action - if he's 4, and he deliberately scratches the paintwork on the car, his punishment might be that he has to apologise to everyone who uses the car and help wash the car before it goes in for bodywork or before you fix it up..

Make sure your son grows up knowing that you love him, you're proud of him and that he's the best thing in the world according to you. Bear in mind that the only way he'll grow up knowing this is if he grows up with you telling him it.

Enjoy being a dad.