Where can you find real men who will commit to a 37 yr old single woman?

Question

I have a 12-yr old son and looking for some real men who're willing to take up responsibility and not just looking for pleasure in bedroom. As a woman in my late 30's, I find it impossible to find a man who will commit to me. I registered in a few dating websites and got all kinds of a*****e responses "Hey Baby, I wanna know you", "Can we tango?", "My heart tells me we are made for each other (kisses)"/.

I live in South Carolina.

Answer 1

I wouldn't look on the internet for love lol it's naive, there are sexual predators out there looking for lonely woman like yourself because you're easy targets.  Find a baby sitter or something and go out with some friends or like that chick above me said "go to church", that's safer than the internet.  You have a son to look out for too you know.

Answer 2

1 - stop referring to yourself as a "Goddess"

#2 - stop thinking that it's productive to challenge a man's sense of Masculinity by DARING him to date you and your kid

#3 - wait six years.  don't make your problem that you can't attract/keep a man your son's problem.

Answer 3

don't look at me,the way you see it is that you wantoyour man to take all the responsibility and you don't want to give him any in the bedroom.

Answer 4

You might try taking the chip off your shoulder.

Are you really so surprised to get *dating* responses from the guys (oh, sorry, i mean "a******s") who saw the profile you registered at a *dating* website?

If you're using dating as bait to land a father, you should be registering at one of those websites with listings of South Carolinian men who aren't perverts looking to "commit" to a bitter "goddess" and spend their time and money on aother man's baby without receiving love, affection, or s*x in return.

Let me know how that turns out for ya.

Answer 5

There are men out there who will. Single dads, divorced men, you should consider older men too.

I think Sharky might be on to something, would you want a man who referred to himself as Thor?

Answer 6

You should ask this in singles and dating but sense you asking here, why do you fill you need one? is not the perpose of feminism about being independent with equal rights. just a thought.

Answer 7

You're in deep trouble, I got the last one!!

Answer 8

Send me your info and pic

Answer 9

Good luck with that....

You need to quit worrying about finding a date and worry about raising a good son. He is 12 years old!  you dont need to bring men in and out of his life looking for mr right only because you are not lonely.

He should be the only man in your life for another six years.

Answer 10

ha, you and every other woman i know says this. :) best of luck.

Answer 11

Try Craigslist.org

Answer 12

Try looking for single fathers who better understand that you can have a fulfilling life and children, too.

On dating sites, can you specify you'd like to connect with men with children?

Answer 13

how about church or a synagogue or whatever your religion is? most men there are good. you mihgt want to avoid bars, as that is where you can find men with a lot of problems.