Where did I mess up?

Question

I can't get answer I'm looking for, I've asked this question twice already, so please someone help me.

I used to be good friends with this one girl, she was the most popular chick in the school, and I'm this stoner kid (or people think), and like she started talking to me last year (8th grade), and for some weird reason, we had a fun time, we talked, we laughed, and she even promised we would hang out. She tells me all about how she doesn't like some of her friends, and all this other ****. I pay attention, and help her. She never really helped me with my problems- not that I asked for help. Anyways, so here comes summer, and one day I give her an IM asking her if she wants to hang out at the park or something. She doesn't even respond, just puts up her away message. I felt a little upset, but what can I do, right? So I ask her again, and she doesn't respond. Its' weird, because shes not idle, or away. Just gets me. I really liked her (only as a friend, I had no feelings for her) and she was a great person to talk to.

Where did I **** up?

Answer 1

u didnt mess up so u dont need to freak out. just find a way to speak to her. dont IM her, call her or go to her house and see her so u can get a straight answer.

or maybe her friends have been bagging on her caz she is associating herself with 'stoner' kids and she doesnt want her popular image to start being unpopular.

Answer 2

Since when is she responsible to reply to you?

its not where you messed up with her.

When you are a guy and you are cool with a girl who isn't your gf you just be sure to look for that, she will disappear one day or just ignore you.  

Answer 3

you sound obessive! maybe she's busy at the moment or something. mayube call her.

gosh ths is scary! just talk to her.

Answer 4

Oh dude, you did not mess up.  Classic situation:  boy meets girl (or vice verse).  In a one situation, you connected with her.  Most other situations, you are a liability. Girl does calculation.  Guy gets old schooled.    

I'd say learn to control the marijuana high.  Control the high, you can get ANY girl's number to the life.  Then you, my young friend, will be the master.  No joke.

Oh, I think Amy M has taken an interest in you.   Nothing wrong with that!  She's so mature though.

Answer 5

Honestly, I don't think you're really going to get the answer you are looking for on here because the answer you really want is an answer from her...

I don't know that you did anything wrong, but I doubt it. She probably avoided you at first because maybe she thought her other friends would give her a hard time. Now she may think you like her as more than a friend and she's not interested in being more than friends. (honestly, even tho you say you don't it does sound like you like her as more than a friend) She probably doesn't know what to say and doesn't say anything, thinking she can avoid conflict by avoiding you. You may never get an answer. Perhaps you could try IMing her once more, maybe something along these lines..."I kinda feel like I'm chasing after you and you keep ignoring me. I don't want anything from you; I just thought we were friends. Do you want me to stop trying to talk to you? Sorry if I did something to offend you. Say the word and I'll find something better to do. I'd just like to know either way...later"...maybe that will help?...if she never replies, I'd say just move on and go about your life. It totally sucks to lose a friend, especially when you don't know why or there is no reason, but you have your whole life ahead of you, and she won't be the only friend that you don't keep for the rest of your life...hope it works out for you!

Answer 6

Doesn't sound like you did, sounds like she's got her own issues.