I'm stumped. I want to do this right. I'm new at this. Bradley is a boy and very stubborn. He is constantly testing me and I don't know how to approach certain situations the "right" way. Time outs, spanking, talking, removing from the situation, raising your voice, redirection, distraction, etc. What works best? What makes things worse? What will make him more violent towards others? Ugh! He does not want to listen to me, when I lean down to his level and try to talk to him he smacks at me, pulls my hair and smiles. Not in a mean way just in a very young little boy way. Smacking his hand does not faze him. He listens to men but not me or his grandmother. Things he should not do automatically become the most interesting thing to do. I want to read and educate myself on boys his age (13 months). Parenting sites do not delve into the psychological thought processes enough so I would like someone to direct me to real educational sites or books on this subject. Please!
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