Where do I go to get better? ?

Question

I have a self harming problem (I don't know how) I keep the scars and pain hidden away, The things my mom has said and done make me never want to talk to her about my problems because how am I supposed to get better when the only person I have to talk to and explain whats wrong with me is the one causing the problems, and I hate my step-dad. I feel like I have no place to turn to and the last time when the teacher told my mom about what I did she my mom just yelled at me and said everything was my fault (like she always does when I get hurt!!) now please please please understand that I am not whining out my problems to you I just want you to understand my situation so you can answer me better. Now seriously, Where do I go to get HELP?

Answer 1

my advice to you will vary...

if its little self harm: playing with lighters and burning yourself

or not serious harm: jabbing yourself with knifes

or serious: cutting your wrists...

for the little harm you should find a hobby to do... that probably could hurt you without you knowing it (this was my problem before... i burned my fingers for no reason.. but then i play a bass guitar and now my fingers are blistered from that)

for the not-so-serious harm: id suggest you find out why you enjoy hurting yourself(like family problems, stress) when you find that problem out, try to fix it...

for serious harm: id suggest you seek professional help(although i dont think this is what you meant)

Answer 2

since you feel you can't talk with mom, you talk with school counselor or nurse, you can call family services in your town or child protective services or call teen hot-line for help

Answer 3

my dear talk to ur mom or family member and tell them u need a good doctor to help u i will pray for you and try to get help call some one family service