Where do you stand on the "How to find love" debate?

Question

There are some who believe that love is something that will find you. You just have to be patient and love will eventually find you when you least expect it.

Then there are others who believe that you just cannot "sit at home and wait for love to come knocking on your door" sort to speak. If you want it, go out there and get it.

So I'm curious, where do you stand?

Answer 1

Id say im a waiting for it.. but theres nothing wrong with going out there and getting it haha. but you shouldnt wait forever.

Answer 2

i think i fall on the first one?

well, here's my view:

you meet people and relationships develop. if you're lucky enough, you fall in love.

Answer 3

Personally, I think it's a combination of both. I think if you open all your oppotunities (i.e. getting out and socialising) then you will find someone very special. I still think it's a matter of love finding you but the more search, the greater the possibilities. Good luck.

Answer 4

I've found it.  Or it found me, I should say.

Answer 5

I stand with you have to find love, because I have been waiting for a long time and nothing...

Answer 6

I am in and out of relationships. There are impatient people who can find love easily. Depends on what you are looking for. Whereever you hang out makes the world of difference.  A night club will only get you a bunch of night crawlers who are interested in one thing. not often we find a love in a place like that, life is not like what we see on t.v.

I have never dated anyone from a club.

I have dated guys that I have met through friends.

I wouldn't ever date a guy i met in a club.

If you put yourself where you can meet eligible guys that are "your type" then It is very simple to find love..

I am very open minded also, so I give anyone that seems to have a heart a chance. :)

Answer 7

I believe that love comes along to those who make themselves available.

If one is sitting at home every evening watching TV and drinking beer, there is little chance to meet someone with whom you are compatible.

If you are socially active, your chances are much greater.

Answer 8

I believe more on destiny.

You can be sitting in a desert alone and love can fall from the sky in the form of a skydiver who was blown off course and landed right in front of you.