Where do you start? Inside or out?

Question

Soooo... When getting to know someone...Where do you start?

I have another question. Do you consider this to be young and/or immature thing? (About looks mattering)

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Now my answer: I usually start on the inside and work outward. I really don't care how someone looks, All I need is a smile. And I'm after them.(I am really shy and when I get into outgoing mood I try to take advantage of it) I'm talking about friends. ( I don't really date. If you do and it is different from friends. Add it!) I don't really notice guys, like, like them for someone that I might possibly date, until I get to know them. (I'll compare it to a movie. I'm indifferent to the main character til the end of the movie, Then, I'm like he is sooo hot. You know his personality has shown through.)

I tend to jump around alot. I hope it's not too bad.

Answer 1

i think its both.. because of sourse you start with looks because isnt that what attracted you to talk to the person in teh first place.... a smile is about looks.

i believe i start with looks semi... and then once i start talkign top the person if tehy have the best personality in the world but may not be teh ebst looking person to everyone else.. they are still good looking to me....

Answer 2

look isn't always everything. i have always gone with that saying so i tend to work from the inside out. it's not really immature or young for someone to like someone on their looks. i know people that are like 26 and still look for "cute" guys.