Where doses attracktion come from in this world?

Question

what i mean is that when i see a fine man in this world,i,m like oh my god where on earth did you come from?and when he looks back at me and see,s what he likes then it,s on

Answer 1

I suspect you have certain physical or emotional needs, in the same way that hunger is a need, and an image of what sort of person might fill those needs.  Your image may or may not have any basis in reality.  

At any rate, when you sense a match between your image and a person you see, something is triggered internally that makes you drift in the direction of that person.  

If the person you are looking at has a similar reaction, you move toward each other, and further testing to determine whether there is a correlation between your image and the other person occurs.

Unfortunately, people, especially desperate people, have a tendency to see matches where none exists, and spend a lot of time trying to squeeze an inappropriate person into an inappropriate relationship.

My suggestion....buy a dog.  Dogs are always happy to see you, and only require dog food, love, and occasional trips to the vet.

Answer 2

i aggree with you. sure is a wonderful feeling and usually unexpected. it's called chemistry.

Boy, it's the best!

Answer 3

Going for someone purely based on attraction is bad because the person may be really good looking but the person may be bad. You need to focus more on personality because looks fade after awhile.

Attraction is only a temporary feeling and it only comes from lust.