Where has my s*x life gone??

Question

i have been with my husband for 14 years we had a really active s*x life.

now for the last few years i really crave s*x but he never wants it

what am i doing wrong ?

i know i have a very highsex drive but we both use to be the same

what do i do

Answer 1

It could be he has some problem maybe he is to shy to talk about. Any disease such as high blood pressure and diabetes can affect his erections.Maybe knowing what you expect is making it more difficult to approach you about it.Extend some understanding, and let him see your care and concern.Even between husbands and wives who are close,these issues can be tough to talk about.Sometimes it is very tough to approach.I hope all goes well.He is a lucky guy you love him so much.

Answer 2

You could try suggesting that you both go to counselling, most men would be so horrified at having to talk about such an intimate issue that they would throw you over the kitchen table then and there!

Answer 3

Hi,

Talk to him - it may be too much of everyday pressures are stressing him out.

Do this first as if he stressed it will affect his libido and he wont feel like s*x at all.

If it because he has no time for it then ...

Plan a romantic weekend away or in - get babysitters for the kids - make a romantic meal for 2, then a lovely nice bubble bath with candles and buy some pretty lingerie and spend the night in bed and the next day! ;-)

Good Luck!

Lx  

Answer 4

Maybe it isn't you. Maybe it's him slowing down. Try being more creative in the bedroom. See if that turns him on. lol Different positions, fruit, blindfold tasting sessions, pole dance for him with him handcuffed to the bed lol haha or having blindfolding sessions where you experiment with each others bodies just via sound, touch, smell, taste. No peeking. haha. lol It could turn out to be fun. See what rocks his boat and go along with that. If not, then he may have started to have slow labido.

Answer 5

hmmmmm, has he got access to the internet?  

Answer 6

You're not doing anything wrong...why don't you talk to your husband?

He could just be tired, but who knows.

Answer 7

Maybe after being together for so long it's become boring for him, try something differnent  i dress up for my hubby and do different things with him every now and then.

Maybe do him a lap dance?

Answer 8

Send him to his doctor.  He may have medical issues, or this might be a side effect of some meds that he's taking.

Answer 9

Try going to Relate together

Answer 10

talk to him about it and im sure youll find out whats going on a lot better than asking ppl on here.