Where & how can i find honest Good Friends !?

Question

Where & how can i find honest Good Friends !?

Answer 1

If you're looking for perfect friends then you are in for a disappointment because people are Not perfect.

With that said,  get involved in groups who are invoved in hobbies that you enjoy doing. You will meet people with simular interests. You can also get involved with a church group and meet people there.

Understand that friendship is a give & take,  trial & error, test & see ordeal. You can't immediately trust everyone you meet but you can test them to see their sincerity with friendship. Keep in mind that everyone has their short comings but that there are good people out there such as youself who are also looking for friends. Good luck.

Answer 2

You don't look for friends, friendship finds you.  Honest good friends doesn't come instantly, relationships are formed overtime and if you're an honest and good person too, you would likely find someone like you.

Answer 3

Down by the lake, where the watermelons grow..

Answer 4

You know, this is a tough question, because as I'm sure you know, people change, form new alliances with others and sometimes backstab.

However, here is my advice and it's taken me about ten years to really come to this after a few great friendships and a few failed ones.

1) Embrace yourself first and foremost.  This confidence will ward off the people you don't want in your life and attract those you do.

2) Trust your gut.  If you feel like someone is sniggering behind your back, making extremely critical comments to your face, etc., then they probably are.  It doesn't have to be an all out war to end the friendship, but find something else to do to avoid that person.

3) Take part in things that interest you.  Join clubs or take up a hobby.  Get a walking partner.  At least you will have some common ground there.

4) Don't dismiss people as friends who are older or younger than you.  Those who are older can offer advice and a true friendship, those who are younger can learn from you.

5) Volunteer.  Some of the best people out there are working to help others; you might find someone great by participating in projects like Habitat for Humanity, or on a smaller scale, volunteering at your local nursing home.

6) Many people find solace in a church community and meet people there.

7) Avoid the places you've found the dishonest friends.  You are too good for those kind of people.  Again, ward them off with confidence, not with anger.  You're just not friendly anymore, and nothing more needs to be said.

8) Let friendships happen.  Don't put yourself out there to be the most popular or best-liked person.  There is no such thing, even if the surface indicates otherwise.  The best friendships surprise us.  And people who we've sometimes dismissed as possible friends can work out sometimes, too.

9) Don't forget the support of family!  They can count as friends, too!

10) Make a list of what's important to you in a friend, what you don't want, and start sticking to it.  Address issues as they come up.  If someone is dishonest with you, call him/her on it.  If they truly are a good friend, they will own up to it, and you can move on.  

Trust your instincts....good luck.  I know you will find friends who are like-minded and good.

Answer 5

first you are looking for a male friend or female.

secondly you can not find a good friends online.  to find a good friend you have to make your self good and honest.  secondly  

Answer 6

Church and the groups within it and the community.

Answer 7

Be honest and good to yourself and to others and honest and good friends will come to you.

There is no specific place to find honest and good friends.

After all bird of same feather flock together.

Take care

Answer 8

i am sorry if i sound rude but what a question. u will find them all over the world, from the neighbour who may scold for making noise to the little boy in the garden playing with his toys, to the strict policeman standing in the corner, and the old lady who lives across the street and many many more. just open urself to friendship and give ur love and ur friendship to all, and surely it will be returned by somebody and voila there u would have found a friend...........approach people, talk to them, share things with them, play with them.......

i am ur friend (i know u none of us know each other but we can still be friends and u never know someday we may meet and share our happiness)

with love and friendship.........enjoy and find friends...... :) :) :0