Where my eternal love is lost?

Question

When I was young I watched movies and listened songs from ABBA, I liked (and I still like Greace) and Beatles and many, many other love songs. I believed that my eternal love is promised to me. but later in life by the strange chain of events, I lost such love and now I am alone with broken heart. How is possible so many love songs to tell something that it is not true? Now all that remind me about her are love songs and I still dream about her althought I know that now only love songs are what I have.

Maybe my dreams were too high. Maybe nobody never can have such love. Maybe it cannot be because I made too many mistakes and because I am just mortal and not heavenly being. But my dreams remain in my heart. maybe in some other lifetime I will have more luck.

Answer 1

Wow! you are broken hearted! I would tell you what your dream meant but you didn't give any detail to your dream..But the only reason why you would dream of her is because you want it back..But its also more than that..Your dream will tell more about 'you' who you are, and whats bothering you, and what you can do to move on..People don't get depressed by others they get depressed because they let it happen to them..You have to stop thinking negative! Theres always someone there for all of us..You just haven't found her yet! And if this girl wasn't meant for you then there must be someone better..Don't live on the past, let it go and allow new ones to enter your life..Songs are important they make you move on ,make you feel happy ..Just listen to the ones that pushes you to move on..

''Maybe my dreams were too high'',  thats your problem! You set them too high that when you can't reach them, you dissapoint your self..

Atleast you know when you made a mistake, use it and fix it..Don't be so hard on your self, everyone deserves a chance no matter how many mistakes you made..Making a mistake is sometimes a good thing, because we learn from it and move on..It makes us a better person..Not alot of people realize there mistakes, but you did because you know what they were..So move on and treat the next person your unconditional love..Be thankful for the old girl friend because she made you see..**Be positive!! **SMILE!**AND LET LIFE TAKE YOU TO THE NEXT COURSE =) GOODLUCK!