Where should I move???

Question

The question is whether or not I should stay here (South Florida) and help my Grandmother in her old age, or go with my Mom (who I have problems with) to the Northwest. If I leave here, my Grandma will write me out of her will, and it will b cruel to leave her here alone or in a home. If I go with my Mom, there will be lots of fights and controlling behavior. My Mom and Grandma hate each other and have been putting me in the middle for years. They see this move as somehow taking sides on either counts.

Answer 1

well i don't know what to say.

like i have been telling every one else. u need to stay close to parents, my mum passed away nearly 2 year ago we never got on.

but on the other hand, ur nan is elderly, she will need more help than ur mum.

sorry hun its entirely up to u

Answer 2

Follow your conscience.

Answer 3

i'd say stay with your grandma, its the noble thing to do, and why would you go somewhere where you would only get anger, frustration and hate? and plus older people are just genuinely more interesting to talk to

Answer 4

well sounds to me like ur grandmother needs u more and if u argue with ur mum so much then surely u will have a better life with ur grandmother and u say ur grandmother is old so i think it would be nice of u to stick around and keep her company and help her out as lets face is as u get older u need a lot more help !

but of course the decision is urs